Is it normal my fwb is mad i had sex with someone else?

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Me and my fwb had it clear that it was just sex and we werent in a relationship or anything. So today she called me in the morning and woke me up and I told her I was at this other girls house. She asked if I had slept with her and I said well obviously, why else would I be here in the morning. She didnt say anything for a moment then said oh. I told her she shouldnt have a problem with this and she said she had to go and hung up. I texted her later and she didnt respond so I havent been able to talk to her since then. Whats her problem? Is it normal a girl cant handle being a fwb?

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  • Sog
    11 years ago

    This is why most people don't do FWB. Someone usually ends up getting hurt. Otherwise everyone and their grandmother would have a FWB.

    Well you live, you learn I guess.

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    I'm sure I'll get a lot of flak for saying this, but don't think you did anything wrong (although it is normal she's upset).

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    • shade_ilmaendu
      11 years ago

      I agree with you. They weren't dating, they weren't committed or emotionally invested, they were just friends enjoying each other's "company" in a very physical way.

      It's understandable that she's hurt, but that's kind of the point of a FWB relationship... no commitment. o.o Sounds to me like she was hoping it was gonna turn into something more.

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  • Master4Aaron
    11 years ago

    Overall she became attached to u and fell in love and now she feels like ur being unfaithful

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  • claybird
    11 years ago

    She probably likes you

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  • beestinghoney
    11 years ago

    Women can handle anything men can...perhaps its the way you handled yourself. A. You should have called her back later instead of answering-you sleep together-no need to talk about getting laid last night B. "well obviously, why else would I be here in the morning" condescending sarcasm? Does she deserve that? C.fwb or not if you're sleeping with someone you should be sensitive to their feelings. Maybe she'll get a little jealous but still be cool with the arrangement-as her friend you should be able to talk to her kindly and maturely about it rather than throwing it in her face.

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  • sexymilf
    11 years ago

    I think it's normal. I believe we can handle the fwb arrangement. We want to be your ONLY fwb.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You hurt her feelings. Make it up to
    Her you dumbass

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      Erm, why should he?
      She "agreed" to being friends with benefits, nothing more. If she couldn't handle that, it's her fault, not his.
      He is in no way a dumbass for doing what she agreed to.

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      • Charle44
        11 years ago

        FWB's don't work. No matter who you are, unless you're a sociopath or something, emotions will always get involved with sex. Every generation thinks they've got it figured out, and they can have free sex, but it never works.

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        • [Old Memory]
          11 years ago

          So does that make me a sociopath for not feeling emotionally conflicted in this situation? Ofcourse not. People can do it for casual fun, and if one can do it and the other can't and gets emotiona, that's their fault.

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  • iknowitswrong
    10 years ago

    Just because she agreed to FWB does not mean she is not falling for you. I am sure that she might have thought about how she would react if you are sleeping with someone else. But when it actually happens, it hurts to know. especially the way you told her. She is sleeping with you, please give her at least some respect, consider her feelings. The girl tend to me the one get attached more in a FWB relationship

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  • dude_Jones
    11 years ago

    She's a lover with benefits, goodbye friendship.

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