Is it normal my friend thinks kissing is gross?

I have a friend who thinks any kind of kissing is disgusting. She says that even though she does want a relationship someday and does not think sex is gross, she never ever wants to kiss someone. We are freshmen in high school and she is really mature. I think she just doesn't like the thought of germs. IIN???

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  • mixwell

    Freshmen and mature is an oxymoron.

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    • Well she's way more mature than most people our age.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    To be honest, I think a lot of children consider themselves to be "mature". They're facing child's issues after all.

    When one becomes an adult and starts facing adult issues that's when things change.

    So likely your friend may feel that she's mature now, but give it a few years and she may grow out of it. And likewise her tastes in romance may also change as she grows up.

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  • OCDC

    I won't speculate on the supposed maturity of your friend, because she may well have her head firmly screwed on (or not), idk.
    But as someone who is seriously averse to germs, I can say I feel similarly - and while it's not normal, it's not exactly unheard of.

    The only thing I would say is a bit iffy, is that she doesn't think sex is "gross" too? Slightly confusing. Surely a hell of a lot of germs are transferred through that, also.

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  • GreyWulfen

    Sounds immature and naive to me.

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  • Mersaphe

    Kissing is gross, your friend is totally right. But sex is even more gross. Lots of things are gross

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  • Aurora93

    I used to think kissing was gross too! Then I fell in love and now I don't think that any more.

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  • CreativeThinker

    No she is lesbian I bet... Eventually she will refuse to even have sex

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    • Hahaha, wait, you ARE kidding right? i hope you are. i cant tell.

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      • CreativeThinker

        No i'm not , coz once I had a girlfriend who use to make a lot of lame excuses for her unpassionate behaviour and once by chance I got hands over her email account and from there I came to know she is a lesbian

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  • RoseIsabella

    Ridiculous!

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  • Avant-Garde

    I think that a large portion depends on cultural/ethnic backgrounds and on how a person was raised as a kid.

    For instance, some abused people think that sex and other things related to it are "gross" or "wrong" due to the things they've experienced. Though, this doesn't have to mean that your friend was or is being a abused.

    I personally am disturbed by relatives kissing each other on the mouths. I think it has to do with the fact that I sexually abused as a kid and kissing or attempted kissing on the mouth, was one of the methods implemented.

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    • I'm really sorry about what happened to you as a kid. I don't like relatives kiss on the mouths either.

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  • Anime7

    I've heard people say that before plenty of times on this site.

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  • peterr

    I knew a broad who would suck my cock but not French kiss. Didn't bother me. She even let me cum in her mouth. Never want to French kiss after that anyway...Her name was Tina..

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    • What a beautiful story.

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      • peterr

        Thank you!

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