Is it normal my friend does this

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So my friend thinks he has a fiancee that is a supermodel...even though shes not even real. he has gone around telling everyone about this fake girl, and has even engaged himself to this girl, he has made a facebook page for her and married himself to her. He claims she is russian so that is the reason we've never met her...idk if i should believe him because his mom even claims she's not real..he claims she came on a student visa and had a child and got married and a divorce,but her parents back in russia don't even know this...recently he has claimed she has committed suicide.even thoguh i sent her a facebook request and she accepted when she was supposebly dead. He said her funeral was in Russia which is why he couldnt make it. But he said he was with this girl for 18 months but doesnt know her e-mail, phone number, father, mother,nor their numbers. I don't think it adds up what should I do?

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taciturn

12 years ago | pl

That awkward moment when it turns out YOU'RE the one imagining HIM.

DUN DUN DUNNNNN

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- taciturn
  
  12 years ago | pl
  
  Tune in next week on Is It Normal!
  
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  - jussayin
    
    12 years ago
    
    seriously. i know this guy & he needs Jerry Springer.
    
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- Hmmaybe
  
  12 years ago
  
  Lol, one the of the best replies I've seen on here.
  
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- ducalfiltre
  
  12 years ago
  
  lollllllllllllllll
  
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[Old Memory]

12 years ago | pl

This is kind of sad. He probably just wants to be loved.

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- jussayin
  
  12 years ago
  
  he looks like someone off the cast of big love.
  
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LightningTechnician

12 years ago

Not normal, your friends is just seeking for attention.

Or he could have some mental disorder.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  i agree
  
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Darkoil

12 years ago

Someone's crazy as bat shit but it's hard to tell who.

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colourmoon

12 years ago

a good friend of mine used to tell everyone she had a boyfriend in china when he suddenly was 'murdered' by a gang and only his finger was found. then she asked me if it's possible to marry someone who's dead.
that was so awkward.
she only wanted attention, i think it's the same case here.

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- jussayin
  
  12 years ago
  
  too funny this is almost better than our "friend's" story...
  
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  - colourmoon
    
    12 years ago
    
    i was like 14 when she told me and she was talking about being raped and suicide i was so damn worried about her.
    i wasted my time because i was too naive, but i can't figure how someone can possibly imagine such a story and then tell her friends and leave them with their worries.
    
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joybird

12 years ago

Laugh at him!

He should write a novel with that imagination.

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- jussayin
  
  12 years ago
  
  he thinks he can write too, he fails @ life!!!
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  lol
  
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Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

12 years ago

sounds like he had a mail order bride

And if she exists.... she could be a model but not a supermodel.

Supermodels ... you'd know who it is.

But a regular model - eh, that's possible.... mainly because the only requirement for it is that you claim to be a model. (although to be a *successful* one you have to do a lot of hard work)

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theytookthisone

12 years ago

I applaud your friend for his creativity

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ccjigsaw

12 years ago

I dunno, theres been alot of ads and thing latley about Russian girls. I even got an email from a "Russian girl" Who said she was interested. It's like the new internet fad, so he may have been telling the truth? Then again maybe not..

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jussayin

12 years ago

roses are red
violets are blue
paul is fat
and he;s ugly too

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jussayin

12 years ago

Apologies to those who I've commented on their posts out of place. All of these were pro biracial people I commented on ur post while looking @ another ..i think whats more important is that we're both on the same side :) jussayin

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ranna

12 years ago

Man u have to move on and get him help and

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moonstruck

12 years ago

I know a guy like this, he would always tell people I was his gf and that we dated when we were younger though that is completely false, our moms were just best friends and I thought he was my cousin and his mom my aunt for many years. Needless to say he is a little mentally slow and seems your friend may be too or not know how to deal socially with people.

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[Old Memory]

12 years ago

Force him to start dating in REAL life! Um, but make sure he's not crazy first o.o..

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- jussayin
  
  12 years ago
  
  thing is...i think he might've made it up bc no one wants 2 date him in real life. he's one of those that decides he likes every girl just 2 have a shot with anyone. then, when he gets some interest, latches in tight.
  
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  - jussayin
    
    12 years ago
    
    out of place again fudge
    
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Sillygoose

12 years ago

This is easily the most snazzy story that I have read, and it is definately not normal.

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alv1592

12 years ago

Either he wants attention or he has some kind of mental problems. If she was real I'm sure you & his family would've met her, and she can't still be on FB after she's dead (unless someone is using it for her lol). Are there pics of a real girl on her FB? Even that doesn't mean she's real, he could've Googled pics of Russian models.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  yess there are pics, but the pics r also online....
  of a real russian model
  
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  - jussayin
    
    12 years ago
    
    I'm friends w. both the author of the story and the crazy guy. We actually found IIN looking up 'is my friend's gf real?'
    
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    - alv1592
      
      12 years ago
      
      just curious, what's the fake girl's name? you can say it here since she's not real lol
      
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      - jussayin
        
        12 years ago
        
        i'm a little worried about him finding out but her name's mandy webb. look her up on fb, she's gorgeous...it's the result w. dark hair, rly pale skin & blue eyes. the guy's name's paul. won't give you his fb but he isn't quite as attractive.
        
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        theytookthisone
        
        12 years ago
        
        hey! I think I found her! http://www.facebook.com/mandy.taylorwebb
        
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zchristian

12 years ago

Im nearly convinced that this is trolling still not 100%...

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  trust me i wish iwas making it up....so at least i knew that it was just me and not something someone truly believes
  
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Jweezee

12 years ago

Then your friend offs himself and in his fist you find a crumpled passport for svetlana dovestloskiyet

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Avant-Garde

12 years ago

This reminds me of the movie Lars and the Real Girl. Only, Lars was with a mannequin instead and no one he knew had the heart to tell him that she wasn't alive. I think your friend has a neurological disorder. There've been time where I've become disillusion about something, but I've never made a person up...

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- jussayin
  
  12 years ago
  
  Haha maybe ill tell him some of ur guys' theories
  
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  - Avant-Garde
    
    12 years ago
    
    I can't imagine his "reaction".
    
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xXxPhantomxXx

12 years ago

Stop givin a rats ass and you'll see the stories die down real quick.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  i tried he just keeps bringing her up at odd times
  
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  - jussayin
    
    12 years ago
    
    Yep...it becomes awkward. Like...
    Me: how are you doing? (pretending I care)
    Him:well, me & my supermodel gf with double c cups wnt out to a fancy dinner last night.
    *double c's dont exist, and ur broke bum
    
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rebrob96

12 years ago

No.. He is probably a schizophrenic. You should talk to his mom about getting him some help.

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skullja1

12 years ago

As much as it may sound stupid, he might be going through an ID crisis. He hates his boring role in society as an average young man so this is his possible ticket to being respected. I would say its pretty normal unless he takes it even farther which I don't know how he could do that.

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- [Old Memory]
  
  12 years ago
  
  Wow. That is actually a very interesting theory you posted there in your second sentence.
  
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  - jussayin
    
    12 years ago
    
    Killing an imaginary girlfriend doesn't seem normal.
    
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DannyKanes

12 years ago

This friend of yours....it's you isn't it?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  no i have a REAL boyfriend.... one who which my friends and family all have met
  
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  - NeonLighterz
    
    11 years ago
    
    Maybe you're the one that's crazy.
    
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