Is it normal my friend ditched me

All summer me and a girl on my soccer team hung out and she new I was new so she was ready to help me out with friends as soon as we got to school she never talked to me and I'm still stuck with the nerd herd I hate them is it normale for her to not like talk to me and not attemt or introduce me to her friends

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Comments ( 11 )
  • XxBlackSheepxX

    become Queen of the nerds and take over the school! MUHAHAHAHA!

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  • jardindefleurs

    Try talking to her and ask her why she did it.
    Sometimes you don't want to ask, but just ask.
    What's the worst that can happen? She still won't talk to you?
    Maybe you'll become friends again.

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  • Your friend didn't ditch you.
    "Friends" don't ditch.
    People do.

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  • Coco327

    God, I don't miss high school

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  • alv1592

    Maybe you need to make the first move and talk to her. Text her or walk up to her at school and say "hey what's up, long time no talk" or something like that. If she still likes you she'll be glad to hear from you. If things don't work out, it's understandable that it hurts but eventually you'll find new friends. Good luck.

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  • she's jealous of you and your potential influence on her friends, or she is just a bitch.

    Either way who cares, be friends with your group that you have now. Once school ends (HS, college, whatever) its very rare for people to remain in touch anyway.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    I tihnk the best course of action would be to shank her

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  • equanimity

    At least you are being yourself; she's faking it to be included with the other "herd".

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  • shuggy-chan

    when you do it, show a lil confidence, even if you have to fake the hell out of it. cause if you can fool them into believing it, then you'll grow a lil more confident yourself. and i learned that most people respond to a straight-foward, and confidence personality. So try to be confindent and direct. Like "aww hey, been awhile, how you been, whatcha been up too since _____" or what are you doing for ________, wanna catch up?"

    that way if you feel like youing in a stereotype, you can use this small act to help break out of that model and build a new model for yourself. One more to you as an individual.

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  • Ask her again, nicely and be like "hey, can I hang out with you guys?"

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  • Garglemysac

    Sounds like you are right where you belong.

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