Is it normal my female friends like my little bro?

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Ok, so as it says above I have quite a few girls who are friends that I talk to on a regular basis. Now it has come to my attention over the past couple years that in stages some of the quite attractive girls of my friend group have had a crush on my brother... Now under other circumstances I wouldn't mind but the fact he is 13 and we are all around 18 (some of the girls being 17) I find it really weird hearing "He is gonna be really hot one day (soon)" and "I really enjoyed his company when I was doing work experience at his primary school... I almost cried when he left" (bearing in mind she was probably around 15/16 when she was doing the work experience)! Now I really need some advice on this, is this just natural (as they see me in my brother but as I am a friend I am 'off limits' or something)? Or is it something else that I am being ignorant of? I really don't know what is going on here and I am finding it really weird.... Is it natural to find it weird or should I just be accepting of it but respond with a friendly "I can't stop you liking anyone, but FYI he is still my little bro... So he is off-limits to you"?!?!
Thanks for any help in this 'issue'!

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Totally normal and as someone already said age is meaningless with regards to attraction.

    I can't even count how many guys are horny for young girls cause it's normal.

    Now, I can tell you that if your little brother does start hooking up with your girlfriends then it will most likely negatively influence your friendships with your girlfriends.

    You'll be the outcast and she'll just want to spend time with your brother.

    It's called SEX and it's one of the most powerful human emotions.

    Much greater than friendship but your gf's won't tell you that, at least not at first.

    So, if want to keep your friends your friends then let them know it's nice they think your brother is cute but he's off limits and if they value your friendship they'll stay away.

    Tell your bro also. If he is a good looking guy he'll have no problems getting girls elsewhere and he should respect what you want.

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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    10 years ago

    It's normal to be jealous some times. Just don't take it out on your brother.

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  • thecowboy911
    10 years ago

    hey OP its normal to be attracted to ppl no matter how old they are ( 13 isnt that young u know ).

    i have a question , do u feel like jealous on ur bro ? i mean iam a guy and if my freinds talked like this about my sis i would difenitely feel jealous and maybe fight over it.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    10 years ago

    It's a little weird for 17 and 18 year olds to be fawning over a 13 year old boy. Does he look old for his age?

    As for you finding it strange and feeling uncomfortable, I'd say that is normal. I have had comments from boys about my younger sisters (11 at the time) from 15 year old boys which made me feel physically sick.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    86% of men want more with their female friends.

    20% of women want more with their male friends.

    I'm seeing a pattern that pretains to you!

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