Is it normal my dude doesn't like me wearing revealing clothes?
I think this is the case. Every time we go shopping and I choose something "out there" hes like "oh..." or when we go out, we usually choose each other's clothes and he'll choose the less revealing one. I get that maybe its cause he doesn't want other guys to look at me or he doesn't want me to represent him in any way. The way we met was by partying and as we got closer, he would say "I don't wanna call someone my girl if shes dancing all over the place and dressing like that..." So I guess now he's just taking things more seriously which really makes me happy and excited :-) or it could be something else that I'm not aware about. He gives me mixed signals about where we stand. Sometimes he'll show that he's serious like this example or sometimes he'll come off as if he can care less i.e, doesn't text/call me often or hesitant to say I'm his gf (we have been dating for a while now and its like it take an amount of time and effort for him to finally be official with someone). I guess this whole "not wanting me to wear revealing clothes" is just part of him seeing what type of girl I am but he shouldn't have a saying in this if he doesn't consider me his gf, yet. BUT I don't want to ruin what we could be so slowly, we're defining our boundaries. One of his is I guess to not be too "out there."