Is it normal my daydreams make me depressed

I have this terrible habit when i have a crush on a guy i start daydreaming about them. I am so excited about him and us i start making plans and get carried away, daydreaming. Because i daydream about them so much, im only thinking of the person of who i think or want him to be not who he really is. In the end, the crush didnt work out so great like i planned to so i get really sad and despressed and cant stop thinking about him. I start feeling like what did i do wrong? But what i did wrong was daydream about him alot preventing me from enjoying who he really is and what could really happen, not just in my head. Is there anyone else who has this problem? What can i do to get rid of this? It hurts so much in the end and i dont wanna feel depressed anymore when i didnt even know the guy only the guy in my dreams =/

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  • indecisive

    That happened to me. The first time just like you exactly, weird but your not alone. The second time I got it bad. The guy liked me first and i suspected it, we were only getting to know each other then my freinds told me. He admitted it but i said no, idk why. And then i started to like him, i daydreamed of what surely couldhave been but wasn't. So the way i do it is find out more about the guy to see he wasn't as good, try it. But i think he was for me.

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  • AnnoyedAlot

    Yep just had a wank thinking of your wife getting done by 2 cocks.

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  • Lile seeing my wife open up taking a cock in her. I like feeling his sperm all over my cock as I fuck her. She is always more hot when a second cock does her,so I'm happy to have seconds

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  • alv1592

    maybe when you like a guy, you should get to know him and be friends. he may actually be awesome in real life, and not just in your dreams. if not, don't worry. it's nothing to mope around about.

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  • boarderbabe12

    Well, if you occasionally like someone, hate them at the same time. If it doesnt work out, you can resort to the hate you held for them. Think about bad things they do, and bad habits and rude stuff about them, so they seem less desirable, and when it doesnt work out, you had nothing to lose in the first place.

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  • hazedup

    I know what you mean. You just seem deep & sensitive if that happens regularly. Its happened a couple times to me, I'll just think about some girl that I start to like ALL DAY EVERYDAY and if something happens then yeah I get kinda depressed for a couple days

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