Is it normal my daydreams make me depressed
I have this terrible habit when i have a crush on a guy i start daydreaming about them. I am so excited about him and us i start making plans and get carried away, daydreaming. Because i daydream about them so much, im only thinking of the person of who i think or want him to be not who he really is. In the end, the crush didnt work out so great like i planned to so i get really sad and despressed and cant stop thinking about him. I start feeling like what did i do wrong? But what i did wrong was daydream about him alot preventing me from enjoying who he really is and what could really happen, not just in my head. Is there anyone else who has this problem? What can i do to get rid of this? It hurts so much in the end and i dont wanna feel depressed anymore when i didnt even know the guy only the guy in my dreams =/