Is it normal my daughter feels no shame around her brother?

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my daughter is now 19 and my son is 12 , she does not feel embarrassed around him at all in all means . i saw her many times get in her room and get out with totally different cloth with her brother inside on the computer .Many times she comes back from her shower to her room with a towel , and does not hesitate to pull it off in front of her brother and wear her cloth ,I always talk to her about this she would just change the subject or say that he is still young . I told her he is 12 !! he is going through puberty this is not normal to him any more , she just ignores me . we did buy him a computer for this room, but the WiFi doesn't reach his room , so he is always at his sister's computer when she isn't using it . so what should i do to her ?

and please for nudist families please do not comment here , I already know your opinion.

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago

    Your 12 year old son is already used to it. If nobody is touching, everything is fine.

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  • dytrog
    8 years ago

    I knew a girl in her early teens maybe 2 years younger than me. One day on the school bus she was sitting in front of me. I started teasing her. I reached around the window side of the bus and played with her tits. She agreed to meet me at a tree house I had made later that eve. When she got in the tree house she started undressing. I told her how great she looked. After we fooled around she told me she and her family were nudists. I could damn sure walk around nude without shame. She said they sat around nude at night when it was to late for visitors. I don't know if any sex went on in the family or not. Not a ? I would have have thought of asking at that time.So I don't know if walking around at home is a good or bad idea.

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  • too_lala_4u
    8 years ago

    Best thing to do, is bring him out the room when your daughter needs to change, because if she's not the one telling him to get out, YOU need to.

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  • Vexxy
    8 years ago

    Get a wifi booster.Move the pc.

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  • unionclocks
    8 years ago

    Chill. Your son isn't going to get a boner all of a sudden now he's 12.

    If you teach your kids that it's bad, and especially beacuses its (gasp) sexual, then they're not going to develop well.
    Infact, if you're so uncomfortbale talk to them BOTH about it. And please...pleAse do not give 'its sexual' as an excuse for anything.
    If either of your kids feel any sexual attraction towards each other that's disgusting anyway. But the female body isn't sexual so PLEASE do not teach your son that is by shaming your daughter. The more he can respect the female body for existing as something that isn't designed to please him, the more respectful he'll be to women.

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  • howaminotmyself
    8 years ago

    Well, you shouldn't teach her shame. That is a horrible idea. Perhaps you could ask her to respect boundaries. He is at a confusing age and her behavior may add to the confusion. However the reactions to the situation will help him learn how to respect the female body.do you really want your son to grow up believing the female body is a shameful thing?

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  • abigdick
    8 years ago

    If she and he are OK with the situation, why are you so hung-up about it? Let the be.

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  • r3cpo
    6 years ago

    they are both fine with the situation so let it be.

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  • killaj91
    8 years ago

    Take the boy out of the equation he needs to know from his father (absolutely no discredit to mothers but boys tend to listen to dad about sex things) that womens bodies are like rare artifacts they are both beautiful and a wonderous thing to gaze upon and seing his sister nude will make him less appreciative to a womans body not that he will be gay or not respect women but in the sense as he has seen it every day since he was 12.so it is nothing special for him anymore. Do not shame the girl for going to her room to change the boy has to leave. I hope i did not strike a nerve with my post :)

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  • Alkomb
    8 years ago

    Smack your daughter, jeez.

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    • killaj91
      8 years ago

      Wrong hitting her wont do jack it will only make her rebel more

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