Is it normal my crush acts like this given the sort of girl she is ?

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I'm seeing this girl, I've mentioned her a bit here - still scratching my head and I need some thoughts quickly as she leaves again in 2 days.
I dunno what to think. We've been really close , nothing too psychical yet but spent lots of time around each other - sister's friend !.
She's pretty nervous , round me anyway. Often speaks of the top of her head but extremely witty, clever. I can see tho the nervous side often sends out spats of weird reactions or comments , even bitchyness , atleast it sounds like it,I never actually know to be honest.
We've snuggled up a few times, if I go to far she backs away, or slaps me - love the slap-so cute. But she moves back again later - most of the time - all 3 so far. \
But other times she'll be like nervous and act like she doesn't care or throw out a comment or crack if I go to get near her or talk about somem , ask her somem.God knows what she'll throw back at you sometimes but assuming I took it the right way, can hurt, which understanding it is an art all in itself anyway so I'm never f'n sure anyway.
But then if I so back away , I catch her looking over at me , she might even say somem to bring it om if I don't approach her again , or she might sit there for hours acting like she doesn't give a shit, I think !
Or last night for example , 3 of us go to jump on the couch for dv's and she says - I take it I'm sitting next to Chloe then am I ?
I mean what's that ? The night before she wanted to sit next to her , well said she did anyway ? So did she really or was that saying she didn't.
She's so hard to approach tho and this is what makes her so tricky b/c there's just no telling how she'll respond !

She's had a really rough life so very defensive,not sure where I stand with her or if maybe she is purely just a bitch that hasn't got a f'n clue.
I dunno whether to keep after her or dump the lot.
Is this normal , considering her personality and past , is it cat and mouse , playing hard to get , or does she just not really want me or only when she's in the mood - what ?
Did she want me next to her with that crack on the couch?

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  • slutzombie
    10 years ago

    Somem

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  • blaster
    12 years ago

    Thanks Anime , dunno if you've got back but I deleted my first response bc I couldn't get it right.
    But what you've said rings so true to her I can;t believe it . Do you study psych or something ?
    She can also be pretty self sabotaging amongst it and sometimes it's maybe part of that wall subconsciously, self preservation maybe but others it;s like maybe it's really accidental blurt outs saying she's really not that into me anyway , no clue.
    Sometimes too she'll talk like crazy , other times it's some crack or other and that's all you'll get out of her, then she'll just walk off . Hope I haven't fallen for a nut!

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    Well if she's had a hard life then it is understand why she is reserved. She sounds like someone who has built an impregnable shell around herself so as to not get hurt. The fact that you want to cuddle and be with her is new territory for the girl. I think that she is aware that you care about her but has no idea how to express it since she has never had anyone openly express that they care about her. Just keep being a polite person and keep showing affection towards her and eventually she won't see it as weird but will actually be thankful that you were placed in her life.

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