Is it normal-my brother hugs me creepily

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okay so. I'm 17, and I have a 13 year old brother. sometimes when he hugs me, I get weird vibes, like creeper alerts or whatever. sometimes I feel like he hugs me a little to long, or glances down my shirt. I love him and he's my best friend but I don't usually like it when he hugs me and stuff because I feel like he's being weird about it. but then again, idk if I'm just overreacting. someone help me??

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  • mandypandy92
    13 years ago

    hes a 13 year old boy. so he sees girl and boobs whether ur siblings or not lol my bro is the same way and hes 15 but i do nott allow him to look at me that way or i slap him lol it creeps me out but hes just a boy :p

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  • peanutgizmo
    13 years ago

    13 and just hitting puberty-he's probably just curious and starting to take an interest in a womans body!

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    • johnho
      9 years ago

      Probably right, careful he may want you to catch him..

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Save it for Arkansas. Lol Jk it is norm

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  • JustSomebody
    6 years ago

    I've been there .. My younger cousin he's more than a brother but these days I feel like he's trying to hug me more often & he is always putting his hand on my back & then slide it down as if he's taking it off. I think like most of the comments he's hitting puberty & exploring female body. So try not to wear revealing shirts or things like that infront of him until he's mature enough.

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  • RainbowFlash
    8 years ago

    He's a horny kid. Stop hugging him, he won't stop of his own volition. You can be sure that confronting him won't change anything. Remove yourself from the situation to remedy it.

    The only difference between the men and the boys is the size of their d!ck and the size of their toys.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Tell your parents.

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  • snafu
    11 years ago

    13yr old boy will grope anyone or any familey members with tits mybe no more hugs, he a 13 yr old creepy pervert

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  • Kar
    12 years ago

    hes feeling your boobies ! :)

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  • RaNdOmPoPcOrN33467890754213456
    12 years ago

    hes ur brother what do u expect lol

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  • unsure106
    13 years ago

    Maybe avoid hugs with him for a while?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    This is normal. However, if not dealt with properly, may lead to years of rampant incest, which may or may not be so bad.

    How you act upon this is entirely up to you, from either taking off your shirt to simply talking to him about his behavior, but NOT in a scolding demeanor, this is perfectly normal, as he is probably hitting puberty. Just ask him what's been going on lately, if he's been feeling strange or anything.

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  • alf2010
    13 years ago

    Pull you pants and panties down show him your kitty cat that you have between your legs and he leave you alone for a while. LOL

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  • bleach_baby
    13 years ago

    It's kindof hard to say from this story. If he is indeed being creepy, it is only out of curiousity and unlikely to turn into incest. For example, my little brother stole my bra when he was about 12, not because he fancied me or anything like that, but because he wanted to look at it and was just getting interested in that sort of thing. Other friends have told me similar stories - my best friend caught her brother looking at her in the shower, again, not because he fancied her or anything but because he was curious about the female body. I wouldnt worry about it, but if it makes you uncomfortable, make some joke about him perving on you and that should stop it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    it is normal just puberty.

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  • Comm0nSense
    13 years ago

    thise hormones haha I bet he's thanking the parents for him having an older sister

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  • red_gal_85
    13 years ago

    hes at that age where hes curious about the female form chances are he'll grow outta it

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  • rubikscube
    13 years ago

    lol. i think its fine. he's 13 so it is natural for him to be curious. puberty and all that crap. i suppose it will go away as soon as he gets a girlfriend or smth?

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  • lol_bamf
    13 years ago

    ^Agree.
    He's thirteen and he's discovering the female body. Hormones are running rampant through his body. Tell him that it's alright to be curious, however, not with you. It's creepy. If that doesn't get through with him, tell your parents.

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