Is it normal?my brother has hated me and my daughter for 30 years?

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When I became pregnant in 30 yrs ago,my brother changed. He has always had jealousy-but it escalated. He married right away and had two kids and counted what my parents did or didn't do for their children vs. my daughter. I had married and divorced within 2 yrs. I was self supporting and a women of the 80's that didn't rely on any assistance and was self supportive. His wife would be jealous of where I bought clothes, and where I got my hair done. Now we are grand parents. Our sons and daughters are not close and we don't get together as a family anymore like we used to. He is a drinker, construction work, angry, know it all, attitude. Easter, he raised his voice at me and I asked for an apology. Never got it. When I left, He said he never wants to see me. I do not party. I am married to white collar- live on a lake, and travel to nice places...we are not rich. He always talks about money and what HE has or what HE is doing... How does one part ways for good, knowing it is for the betterment for myself to not be around this negative dysfunctional women beater (beat down-history of it)...

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    9 years ago

    You're better off without him. Cut all contact with his poison. Just because he's your brother dosent mean you need him. He's a pretentious asshole that can't seem to let go of his jealousy.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Not having siblings, I have no idea of the feelings involved, but it sounds to me as if you, your children and grand children will be better off as far from your brother and his family as you can get. Sorry.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    9 years ago

    Sounds to me like the way your parents treat your kids is a small part of the bigger picture. A lot of families have had problems with sibling jealousy (mine included). There really isn't anything you can do about it, he is the one calling the shots (the one with the problem), if you never get to see him again, don't feel guilty, it wasn't your fault.

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  • georgewoods
    9 years ago

    sniff your daughter tits?

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