Is it normal my boyfriends starting to be rougher during sex

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we're both 19 and have been together for 9 months. He's never been kinky in bed but ever since i found out he gets off to rape porn and a few other weird genres a week or so ago, he's been alot rougher in bed. He pins me down which he didn't do before, he chokes me alot more, (but not to the point where i actually can't breathe) he puts me face down ass up and pins my wrists to my back so i can't move, and pulls my hair. I don't know if he's doing this because he knows i know he likes rape porn now, or if this is something i should be worried about. He's always been the type to be kinda rough and he has bad temper, but he's never been this way during sex.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Be careful! If he has a temper issue, it will only get worse! Get out while you can!

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    Sounds like a creep.

    I like it rough sometimes but my partners know that. If he can't respect you and your desires it's time to curb him.

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    It sounds like you're just allowing him to do whatever the hell he wants. If he gets off on violent sex, then he'll keep pushing the envelope until you're doing all the degrading, painful crap he's seen in his porn videos, and then he'll just keep pushing further.

    Whether or not you allow him to treat you as an object to be used and abused is entirely up to you. Some women like this, some don't.

    Your mention of him having a violent temper is a red flag. Poor emotional control and a definite preference for extreme sex is a potentially dangerous combination.

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