Is it normal my boyfriend won't go down on me?

I am a very generous man in bed especially giving my girls oral but there have been a few that just weren't fresh btw douching is not good for ur vagina in general maybe change up ur diet things like coffee tuna asparagus or fast food in general can make you smell bad pineapple is very good at sweetening things up stay hydrated and lots of fruit in general can't hurt

Maybe its not his thing. But if your giving him blowjobs then thats not fair to you.

I'm guessing it's him. Some guys don't like the taste/smell of women's fluids from there, just like some women don't like getting a guy's man juice in their mouth. But if it is you, showering helps, but doesn't do anything for odors inside any more than washing your face and the outside of your mouth lips will cure bad breath. Diet, low grade infections, bacterial imbalances and "lost" tampons are often the cause. Most douches do more harm than good.

I dated a girl like that in college. It just smelled rank down there even after showering/bathing!

I am not saying the OP suggested this personally, but it has been suggested in some comments, and I really hate the idea that, "well one partner is giving oral sex so the other should". That would be no different than a man saying a woman is obligated to have sex with him tonight because he took her out to an expensive dinner. Sex, and sexual acts are not obligations.

That is not to say the other partner must just accept it. They have options such as communication to make the other partner comfortable, and even ending the relationship due to sexual incompatibility.

But at the end of the day, if someone doesn't want to do something they don't have to do it. Guilt and obligation should not be factors.

Some guys are selfish. Tell him you need it and he might come to the point of like it like any other guy that never taste it.
You are probably very young.

Cut him off. Don't go down on him until he goes down on you. It's only fair.

stop giving him blowjobs even the pleasure table or put some honey in the honey pot to add some flavour and if he stil refuses call me

Hey I'll do it for you. I don't mind at all.

Step-by-Step:
1) Shave/wax your pussy and spray it with a little nice lady perfume to get ready for a wild evening.

2) Prepare/make/order a nice candlelit dinner and some wine. Get him tipsy, then strip him naked.

3) Get naked yourself.

4) Sit on his face with your pussy right on his mouth.

5) Let the dude enjoy your pussy while stroking his junior.

6) Come back here and post the results. We want to know.

I came in here with the motive to tell you that maybe you just have a disgusting vagina but then you already said it in your post :(

So now I got nothing :(

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I think he just doesn't want to.

1: You give him oral
2: He pounds your lovepocket
3: He releases the cracken inside of you.

3.1: Either his semen smells bad and he thinks it's you
3.2: You made the mistake of giving, he took everything and now has no further incentive to please you further
3.3: It's kinda gross

My advice to you would be to put in your part of the pleasure taking either before Number 1, or, between Number 1 and Number 2.

1.1: Pleasure him
1.2: Get pleasured by him

2: Commence with the pounding of the lovepocket

As someone who loves eating pussy this just doesn't make sense to me. If I liked her enough to make her my g/f I would be eating that out day and night. That is unless it's a hairy pussy, no one likes to pull pubic hair out of their mouth.

Try using those fresh feminine wipes before having sex and after using the bathroom.
http://www.summerseve.com/products/cleansing-cloths

And possibly an edible lube?

If he still rejects you after that either 1: He's lazy in bed. 2: He doesn't know how and is nervous or 3: he's gay.

It doesn't sound to me as if you do smell of anything other than normal female juices, which I personally think are usually yummy anyway.

Is this a control thing? It'd be hard not to feel bad about yourself if someone's telling your genitals smell, is it possible he's denigrating you for some other reason? Only suggesting because obviously I don't know you or him ....

Have you tried putting your own fingers into your vagina and smelling them? Tasting too .... if it all tastes & smells OK to you then I think he has the problem, not you.

Seems to me you either have to give up on this or break with him: if it's important enough for you to write to a forum about it, it must be a big issue for you and you seem to have done everything possible to make sure you do in fact smell ok.

I wouldn't either.

Eat lots of pineapple and yogurt, and maybe use flavored lube.

I have quite some experience giving head to other girls and I must say it is not always a nice experience and there are times where I was about to do it and then got a bad smell and didn't continue.

The first time is the scariest though. A good trick, get him drunk, kiss him a lot and caress him (don't give him head) and then ask him to pleasure you orally. This might help for the first time.

Humans have hard time smelling their own smells (at least quite a few do).

So you may have a bad smell and not be aware of it. The outside smells (and tastes) very different from the inside.

Shower but as mentioned don't wash out the inside of your pussy just wash the outside and rub some special female care soap around the outer lips and just clean that area. Rinse off the soap completely and then see if he still thinks it smells (shower shortly before the sex).

Also I don't know if you are clean shaven, hair makes it musky, so shave fully to help as well.

Then what I have learnt is that what you drink and eat on daily basis has a strong impact of the odours from your pussy. Some stuff will make it smell bad or even like garlic and it is quite strong smell to get over for the other person. Worse yet, when it has a garlic smell to the other person, you won't notice it at all.

Ideally, drink only water - no soda's and other crap. Drink healthy teas like green tea on daily basis.

Natural yoghurt help a lot too and a diet with good nutrition, natural ingredients and fruit and vegetables goes a long way to improving the pussy smell.

IF STILL you have a smell, then maybe you have a bacterial problem or even worse, some kind of STD. I'd recommend going to the doctor and having samples taken and tests done. Better safe than sorry!

plow his face with that quarter pound pussy

Mmm;)

Dump him

Try the following steps -
1) Give him blowjobs in 69 position and when he is in excitation state lower your pussy over his face gradually.
2) Try to convince him to participate in bdsm act. Tie him to bed post and then after giving bj try facesitting on him.
3) Make him to eat a menthol flavour chocolate before licking pussy.
4) During shower tell him to lick your pussy if he is having smell issue.
5)Tell him u can't orgasm without cunnilingus.

find someone to eat u out, and stop giving him head if you realy wanna be with him.

Unfortunately some people will not do certain sexual acts, and that's their right.
Just like its your right to not do anything in bed you don't want to do.

I was with a girl for about 4 years and she absolutely refused to give me blow jobs. I went down on her all the time, sometimes even just for her to get off and not even have sex after.

My wife loves giving me blowjobs. So it's really a personal thing, rather than an "equal trade of services" thing.

If not having him go down on you is a deal breaker then you might have to consider your relationship status.

Good luck.

You're normal, your situation is not. If you're really that concerned, have you tried a douche? I think it's a problem on his end of him just not wanting to go down.