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Not just their names etc. But the more intimate things aswell, like size, how i felt with them?
I don't understand why, I thought it would make him upset or jealous. But he really wants to know.
Is this normal?
I think he's just a bit jealous. I used to do that. I don't think talking about past relationships is a good idea, it will just make him mad.
I believe that many boyfriends are curious from this standpoint....is there some type of sexual act that got "your motor running"...so your boyfriend may actually trying to be a better lover....Also....if there was anything that you thought was "taboo"( i.e anal sex?)..he needs to know that also...
Tell him to mind his own business! The information will only torment him and he will cast it up to you in arguments. Sounds like he's very young, I met my bf when he was 22 and he never asked anything like that, nor did I ask him. We've been married over 20 years now :o)
It might be annoying but its normal. Sounds like he's feeling a bit insecure...
Size? No I don't think that's normal. I think that's unhealthy because he might not feel he "measures up" to them. Or he may try to compete with things they've done in the past just to feel like he was the best of them all. He should just be himself and never mind the exes. Had he just asked how many intimate partners/boyfriends you've had, that's a normal inquiry.
He's probably trying to see how he stacks up in comparison. Being secure is all fine and good, but that isn't going to stop someone from ditching you if they aren't receiving at least the same quality they've become accustomed to. I believe it's a legitimate concern.
Let's say you were using a food product - we'll call X - that you really liked the flavor of, but you couldn't eat it because it contained an ingredient that made you sick. You start using a new brand called Y, and while it doesn't make you sick, it doesn't taste quite as good as X. It's reasonable to assume that eventually you will want to seek out a brand that has the qualities of both X and Y or better.