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Every time my bf comes over and we have sex he always wants me to act like a little girl. He tells me to talk like a little girl, use simple sentences, have a higher pitch voice and make faces like pouting. He also likes it when I refer to him as "daddy", which I find kind of weird. Is this normal?
sounds like it's time you both have an adult discussion about what you want and don't want to do in bed, and what you're willing to try
Prolly better for him to fuck you pretending to be a little girl than a little girl.
He should talk to a therapist.
I see nothing wrong with role playing.
A common role play is when the BF ACTS like he is raping his GF. Note, this role play can be quite involved, ie kidnapped off street, tied up etc.
I want to stress that role playing is NOT real. It is just fantasize and pretend. ie Even the rape role play does not come with death! Or physical abuse! Or anything that may actually make it real!
Some fetishes also include having the girl/woman wearing nappies, and the guy even cleans her if she has an 'accident'!
Theses sexual role playing fetishes, do not mean the guy is a rapist in disguise! NOR a pedo.
OMG, I've heard that some guys (generally just about ALL) like having their GF dressed up in a school uniform!
They're sick I tell yu, lock 99% of guys up, some (generally all again) just want to have sex with a girl, they don't even care about romancing! If you are male seek therapy today, sex should be about love! (most guys bellow with laughter)
he is into ageplay/incestplay/daddy dom/little girl and if youre not into it you should probably say something because he's not going to stop liking it.
OMFG!!!! Are most of you like totally special? HE IS NOT A PEDO!!!! I think some of you need to be educated in SEXUAL FANTISIES!!!!!! DADDY DOMS ARE A LARGE PART OF THE BDSM COMUNITY LOOK IT UP BEFORE SAYING SOME ONE IS A PEDO!! FFS HE IS NOT ATTRACTED TO CHILDREN!!- What is a daddy dom? A Daddy Dom is a slight variation from a traditional dominant in a dominant/submissive relationship in that they must consider their subs inner child dynamic. A typical top/bottom or dom/sub relationship has is based upon a relationship in which the sub will give total control and decision making to their dominant. There are a huge number of scenarios that can play out in these relationships, but in most of them the submissive will ask for a variety of controls, punishments, rewards and work at the beck and call of their master. There can be BDSM, service, humiliation, and degradation that goes along with these typical relationships. This typical relationship is most famously outlined in the 50 Shades of Grey Trilogy.
Daddy Doms have a similar role with their “baby girls” or “l’ils” with some twists. Daddy Doms are usually in full control of their li’l, but also have to take care of the social and emotional well being of their baby girl since their sub is in a slightly different mind space than traditional subs. Daddy Doms will work within a series of rewards, rules, disciplines, and consequences with the mind set of their li’l considered. A typical Dominant will defer to typical BDSM punishments, bondage, paddles, humiliation etc. Many of these punishments will not work with a li’l and often times will only aggravate the situation
If you both consenting adult s it should be fine providing it's a fantasy
If both partners like it, then what's the problem. I say go for it. I mean so many of us are screwed up in the head because of our upbringing, something we have no control over, and get turned on by things that others find "morally wrong", but role play doesn't make one a criminal.
It's called role-playing.. does he come off as normal in every other aspect? I mean if the guy is checking out little girls or something than maybe something is wrong, but the daddy little girl role, according to psychologist,has nothing to do with an infatuation with little girls. It's the innocence and the role that enhances the sexual act. For example, you may like to be submissive in bed. Perhaps the idea of calling your significant other "daddy" will give you feelings of warmth and protection. Anyway, my girlfriend and I love it and in no way are we tolerant of a real life scenario like this. Role playing should be fun, edgy etc. Some people like the idea of being "bad." Anyway, I think it's perfectly normal, unless your boyfriend is a creep for other reasons. Than it may look bad in context haha.
It's really quite simple. Pedophiles are sexually attracted to children. Many adult men are turned on by an ADULT woman behaving as a little girl in bed. A pedophile has no interest in an adult woman, and a healthy adult male who wants to role play daddy/little girl scenarios with a woman has no interest in children. Just like many women have rape fantasies but would never, ever want to be raped- men who want their sex partner to behave as if they were little girls in bed don't acutally want to have sex with little girls. Role play is a healthy exercise between consenting adults that builds trust and strengthens bonds. Don't take my word for it, ask a professional. Read serious literature on the subject. Whatever you do, don't listen to a bunch of ignorant, sexually repressed prudes on the internet who have no idea what they are talking about and probably have the worst sex lives imaginable and very miserable spouses. Repression leads to dysfunction. Expression leads to growth. Relax, a very, very, very small percentage of the population can be classified as pedophiles. Often "pedophiles" are not true pedophiles but malignant narcissist who prey on the most vulnerable members of society when engaging in sexual abuse- children, the mentally, senior citizens. Your boyfriend is just imaginitive, horny and trusts you, apparently undeservedly so.
If a guy asked me to role play this I'd show him the door make sure he can't get near my kid's and tell people stay safe as that's a little over board telling u to dress,look and even talk like a kid
While Isitnormal.com is by no means a normal community, "ageplay" seems pretty common here. The fetish has popped up in a bunch of questions I've read today. Some of which had > 50% normal ratings.
It's a surprisingly common fetish/fantasy, especially considering how many people claim to be utterly disgusted pedophilia. Makes you think.
Regardless, IMHO if someone wants to act out a particular fetish all the time, instead of "regular" sex, then it's not normal. It's not necessarily bad, but not normal.
I know that people have fetishes and all that... but this is NOT normal on any level in my opinion. All that makes me think of is a wanna-be-PEDOPHILE.
WARNING WARNING WARNING if he wants you to look like a child sound like a child behave like one, he a danger don't let him baby sit anyone's kids as i said WARNING. everyone likes to role play but being like a child WARNING.