Is it normal my boyfriend looks at sexual things?

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we're both young and a year ago i found a bunch of porn on his computer and we've finally got past that and he's stopped but today i got curious (note: i NEVER do this) and i looked at his youtube history and there were girls and things. i suffer from depression and have really bad insecurity and also trying to lose weight so this makes me feel so horrible. my legs started shaking and i have extremely bad anxiety. i was trying to confront him about it but his parents were yelling at him for being on the computer so late so he had to sign off and his phone is taken away so i have no contact. is it normal for him to do this .. i hope you understand why this bothers/worries me. we go on cam all the time and we're very sexual with eachother i don't understand.. i need some comfort and i'm alone. i'm on my period so my feelings are all crazy. i want to feel like the best for him and when i see that stuff i feel like im not good enough. is this normal .. thanks

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    You can be the hottest ever, and give him the best sex ever, and as much as he could ever want, and this and that on top of it, and he would still want to look at porn. It's no reflection on you whatsoever. People just enjoy watching porn and beautiful women and such things.

    I think you need to get yourself in a state of mind where you can let him enjoy his porn and what not instead of trying to control him not to. One can only control ones self anyway; and even then that's not an easy task.

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  • ThatUglyDoll
    12 years ago

    I am a very old lady and have been through this in every stage of a relationship and phases of a mans life. There is nothing you can do about this. People will do what they will do. Actually I just ignore it and it goes away. Go and do something else. Who cares. You should be happy he doesn't pull out the ole' salami and whack away in front of you! You will be ok..I promise.

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  • honeybeee
    12 years ago

    I broke up with my bf over this, we were together for 2 years, he told me he didn't need porn coz he had me , and I believed him and then I found his porn after a year, I cried for 4 months I kept asking him to stop he said he did stop and he said" if I tell u you I stopped u should believe me please I wouldn't lie to u" and I believed him. and then when I went to his house that night I looked through his history I found porn and he also had been going on myspace browsing for girls to look at and facebook girls aswell and even looked at the girl he works withs pictures ( she's 15 and he is 21) and I'm like why would u want to look at her she's 15!! and he said it was coz she had big boobs and he cried and I cried I cried for hours and went home. Then I walked to his house a 2 hour walk in the rain at 4 am and cried and yelled that he lied to my face and it was the worst feeling ever! and we broke up and I punched him in the face and we are still friends we keep getting back together but I can't trust him its so hard so I understand why this hurts u it broke my heart so much it still hurts *hug*

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    I liked the comment on "That seventies show"

    If things where reversed and he was hooked up with one of these hot girls from the porn he watches or whatever, he might just be looking at naked pictures of you on the net or whatever.

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  • minipeewee
    12 years ago

    i don't think it's normal for a teenager not look at porn...

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  • AmvEditor
    12 years ago

    Please try to stay calm for this..... your boyfriend is a man!! I know this might be shocking to you but try to understand it plz.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    12 years ago

    So he likes porn. Honestly I'd get over it, just try not to think of it as a big deal, cus it's not about you. A lot of people have big sexual appetites, or are curious, or like to see different things. It's not a reflection on you, it's just how people are. My bf is allowed to do whatever he wants, I'm insecure a lot about my self image but I wouldn't use that to control anyone.

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  • (:sweet:)
    12 years ago

    There isnt porn on youtube. He has a sex drive wow

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