Is it normal my boyfriend is 23 years older than me?

I'm 19, and my boyfriend is 42. Were madly in love with eachother and we live together. My close friends and even some of my family members have met him and they accept it. But I'm afraid to tell my coworkers how old he is if anyone were to ask. I guess i could lie but I wish I could be honest and open about my relationship. This is not my first relationship with a huge age gap either. My last boyfriend was 29 years older than me.

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48% Normal
Based on 109 votes (52 yes)
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Comments ( 13 )
  • bleach_baby

    Totally normal, if your dad died/left when you were young.

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  • Hmmaybe

    If you're happy together and in live, then that's great. I hope you have a really great relationship. If anyone disapproves they're not worth your time.

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  • Malaglinir

    You're both adults. As long as you two really are in love, there is nothing wrong with this.

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  • joybird

    At 19 you're still developing - don't let an old man whose had his life, stifle your growth.

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  • Nonjudgmental

    I'm in a similar relationship, I wouldn't move in with him yet but the love is there. I find that I don't share our relationship with people not because I'm ashamed or embarrassed, but because unless people genuinely love and care for you it's not their business. I've also found that people worry about my relationship more than me, so I'd rather not put that burden on people because they always seem to have that moral dilemma of telling you what to do.

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  • Aleks85

    What a pimp I'm proud of him. Give him my congrats on scoring that young meat.

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  • Lucyg123

    Holy shit
    He'll no
    Find some one in a 3 year range
    Lie lie lie
    Petifile

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  • wONdeRbREaD

    It's normal if he's ballin

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  • aaa83

    If you love each other, then go for it... Don't listen to people... All the best in your life luv

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  • Princess1989

    Yes it's very normal. When I was 20 which was 2 years ago I lost my virginity to a 52 year old guy and he was 32 years older than me. We must have met up 11 times we had feelings for each other but the only problem was he was married so obviously we both moved on from each other. After that I have been dating much older men since! I am in a relationship of 2 years to a guy that's 16 years older than me. Age is just a number! Keep telling yourself this and you'll be ok and it's entirely up to u who u fall In love with. Don't put up with any hassle from family or other parties of people regarding your relationship. If u both love each other then that's all that matters. Good luck for the future and keep smiling :-) x

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  • chicken471bologna

    He just wants you for sex.

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  • z00eydeschanel

    What the fuck are you doing with your life

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  • smackthelittlefatty

    Daddy issues

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