Is it normal my boyfriend doesnt want to do this with me?

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My boyfriend and I have together a year and he refuses to go places with me and do certain activities because he has done it with other women in his past. When we had spoken about going out to an arcade he said he wouldn't go because he had already done it with his ex. He also told me if it came to a point we did go to said arcade and he later got asked who he went with he would mention past girl and not me because thats who he went with first. Thoughts?

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  • Mike-Segacamp-Campbell
    5 years ago | pl

    That's just weird. Dump him.

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  • A-sharp
    5 years ago

    He needs to snap out of that mind set

    leave his ass, walk away just like his last girlfriend did. Since he's been every where with her.

    There is someone out there that will go everywhere with you, find him because its NOT this guy. That's BS

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    He's either seriously neurotic, not over his ex or he doesn't want to be seen with you in public for some reason.

    Whichever, he sounds like a loser and I'm sure you deserve better.

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  • paramore93
    5 years ago

    That's just downright disrespectful. If he doesn't want to go anywhere with painful memories, he's not over the ex. If you go and he says he went there with his ex instead of you he needs dumping.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    No offense, but your boyfriend sounds like a little bitch.

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  • JD777
    5 years ago

    Sounds odd - like he’s seeing someone else still and has to be careful where he’s seen with you.

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    5 years ago

    I can understand if it's a place that's strongly associated with a past girlfriend, especially if it was painful breaking up with her. But if it's just any place that he went there a few times with then he's just being a bit stubborn. What's really fucked up though is that he'd tell someone he went there with his ex instead of you, that's just weird and disrespectful.

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  • Shackleford96
    5 years ago

    No, that's a really immature attitude to have.

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  • --_
    5 years ago

    I think you should bring it up to him, he shouldn't care about his past he should just worry about you because you're with him now. You guys should just talk it out because communication is key.

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  • Handyman
    5 years ago

    Because he may run into another girlfriend that you are to know about.

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  • leggs91200
    5 years ago

    He might just be concerned about running into an ex at said places.
    That and yeah, it might feel a little tacky if he has been on dates to places with other women.

    Of course people who say that is stupid would probably make the remark, "It sounds like he takes all his dates to the same places"

    So damned if you do, damned if you don't.

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  • charli.m
    5 years ago

    That's retarded. He sounds like a dick. What, is he going to avoid places for the rest of his life because he's been there with others previously? Good luck with that...

    He's making shitty excuses not to do stuff with you. Tell him to grow the fuck up or ditch him.

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  • Fair_Lucy
    5 years ago

    Is it specific locations? Maybe he has really powerful emotions attached with those sites, and doesn't want to get emotional in front of you. Or maybe he's just "been there, done that". Either way, you guys should go to some new places, and make new memories.

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    • dc2332
      5 years ago

      its normally anywhere he has memories with. So if hes been to a certain arcades he will choose to avoid arcades at all cost, same with bowling alleys, and ice skating rinks.

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  • Obblop
    5 years ago

    Stick with the guy. He is likely the best guy you will ever be able to sink your claws into.

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