Is it normal my boyfriend doesn't like to mastrubate to me?

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So I'm feeling really hurt my boyfriend refuses to masturbate every now and then to the thought of me. I don't think he's not attracted to me because when we're together he can't hold back his cum and he seems to enjoy it immensely. I don't care if he masturbates to porn, but that's all he ever seems to do. We have sex at least once or twice a week(we don't live together so that's the only chance we get). I'm just so confused I baby him so much and pleasure him just b/c I want to I love giving head and torturing him, but he doesn't even want to try and show me affection outside of our sex life (his words at that). What am I doing wrong I've been with him a little over a year and a half. The more time goes on the worse he gets. We fix something then a new problem comes up. I feel like i'm in too far to gone and way to in love to leave, am i normal to put up with this. He like my bestfriend and i'm so confused.

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  • _edinboro
    12 years ago

    He might just not want to taint your image and would rather not have moments of intimacy without you there.

    However, him liking your friend is messed up.

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  • Frosties
    12 years ago

    It's easy for me to say this because I'm outside your situation, but this doesn't sound like a good relationship to me.

    To you, who is in this position, it's probably a lot harder to see because feelings are involved. Do you have people in your real life (who know the both of you) that you can talk to and offer some perspective?

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