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I am 22 and he is 29 and we have been together a year. I have a huge sex drive and like sex every night, he can always get it up and stays hard for ages but does not always cum. This offends me. Is this normal?
Maybe his sex drive isn't as high as yours & he doesn't feel like getting off everytime. Cut him some slack. Isn't it enough that he's willing to get you off when you want?
I don't always cum either, I would say, don't feel offended.
Or do feel offended and beat the hell out of his dick.
Whatever.
Hey you're lucky, at least YOU'RE the one who cums. In most relationships its usually just the guy who cums most of the time.
I am the same way, I can always get hard, and stay that way for hours, but I cannot always finish. I actually found out why recently from Aleks85. I take celexa for anxiety, and any SSRI medication can make it much harder to get off.
When I'm drunk this happens to me, I always power through until I spunk though even if it takes 2 - 3 hours.
Hey at least your keeping your boyfriend from getting prosate cancer!!? Keep up the good work! AS for the orgasm problem 'bigtoy' knows what to do.
He should come as you've been together long enough. I've had one night stands where I've had trouble coming because I didn't know the person well enough to feel relaxed enough. Don't get offended - talk to him about it otherwise you'll build a barrier between the two of you.
The problem is ... you're offended that he's not ejaculating.
Some men take longer to orgasm.
And if he knows you're getting offended at his lack of cream... you're probably making it even harder for him to enjoy himself.
Maybe he needs a girlfriend who appreciates the fact that he sees to her pleasure first... instead of one that's judgmental.
Drugs affect orgasm capability. Or if he's not horny and just does it to please you