Is it normal my boyfriend can't take me out on dates?

Is it normal my bf of almost a year won't take me out alone on a date, or just hang out around the house? We go out with his friends every single weekend.. When we do go out with his friends, he'll eat before and he'll get drinks.. But then pick at my food. It drives me crazy! Hes very cheap, and has a full time job. I've talked to him about taking me out and so have his friends. He doesn't listen. Help!

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Comments ( 16 )
  • pogos

    Dump him.

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  • cutegalsly

    it means you are not that important to him...perhaps he only likes your company but he's not so much into you.a guy that loves you passionately would do almost anything for you including spending much of his time with you than his friends...so find a solution and chuck out if possible

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  • Hayabusa

    why complain if your not gonna do anything about it? lol

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  • WhAt!

    Neh just be his friend and look for a guy THAT LOVES not like him

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  • ChasingAfterPond<3

    You should leave him, if he doesn't want to be seen with you in public with it just being the two of you or do a simple intimate (not sexual) get together of just watching some movies at the house with just you two, then he isn't worth your time. Him wanting you to be with friends as well as you at the same time is typically normal, except for the fact that he does not appear to want to do simple boyfriend/girlfriend things with you and although you have confronted him many times about it, he doesn't listen or seem to care. That is the biggest clue, if he doesn't care that that bothers you, he's not worth your time. Dump him and find a guy that will treat you right.

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  • Dot123

    Leave him, if he doesn't spend money on you its not worth it.

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  • XxBlackSheepxX

    does it have to do with your face?

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  • Ab09

    I do pay for things.. So I'm giving More then he has. I'm asking for simple things to be taken on a date, which is normal bf/ gf stuff. I'm not asking for jewelry or vacations. Just reasonable things.

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  • I agree

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  • thecoldhardtruth

    He obviously has money issues. If this bothers you a lot, leave him.

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  • Ab09

    I've been with other guys and they'd throw all their money at me to be a "gentlemen" It's the way it should be. What kinda girl doesn't want to be treated right??

    I always offer to pay and half the time he'll allow it.
    I do try and make plans but he'd rather go out with me and all is friends together.

    Angel in a glass.. I didn't get raised to pay for anything in a relationship. I'm not like that. I get treated like a princess I'll be nice and pay sometimes but who am I to be the giver in the relationship

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    Simple... take him out instead.

    You talk about him being "cheap" but... what do you pay for in the relationship?

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  • Ab09

    I'm trying to do something about it.. He just either doesn't listen or care idk

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    • joybird

      He only cares about his money.

      Don't waste one more minute on this waster.

      I've been there girl and I guarantee you that he is no good. Get out there and meet a new guy. Meanness is a rotten quality in someone.

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  • Ab09

    We stopped talking for about a month. Now we're talking again lets see if he realized to man up

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  • LNS?

    CHUCK'EM

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