Is it normal my body hair ruins my sex life

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I have a kind of treasure trail on my stomach, and as I have very fair sensitive skin it is difficult to remove. Shaving leaves stubble and sometimes a rash, waxing leaves a rash, plucking leaves little red bumps, hair removal cream simply doesnt work at all. Sometimes its under control but most of the time it's either a bit rashy or there is still a few hairs growing through, even when it's newly waxed and the hair is not visible, it doesnt feel as soft and smooth as the rest of my stomach. I cant spoon properly with a man because it would involve him touching my stomach, and it completely inhibits me sexually, as I prefer positions where it is not visible (which may not be the most pleasurable positions). I also can't enjoy sex if my pubic hair is not completely removed as I feel unattractive. Is it normal for body hair to contol my life like this?

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  • MssMurd3r
    12 years ago

    I agree with Angel.

    But I understand where you're coming from. I don't like having any body hair either and I shave at least every other day.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    It's very possible that you're the only one in your relationships who actually cares about that tiny bit of hair.

    why not try... relaxing a bit. see if your partner cares about it at all. you might find that he doesn't even notice it (unless you point it out to him), or that he only cares about the fact that it's *you*.

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