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My guy BFF really likes his gf but he cheats on her allooot especially with me. It hurts me because I feel used and I may be falling for him. Is this normal? Please help
If he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you.
Don't bother with him, even if they break up, he'll never be yours. (you may want that if you do fall for him).
I think it would be best if you stopped and even reduce how often you talk to him.
I agree with Random-BS nothing will change your only hurting yourself by staying in this "relationship" or whatever. You can find someone better for you
hm, normal to an extent.
I live in a open relationship with another girl, but i also was a "friend with benefits" to my best guy friend, who entered a relationship, but kept our status quo.
I think it may have been easier for us because mainly, he knew i would never feel romantically attached to him(i only "love" girls). So, the important thing would have been the boundaries, and it seems in your case they are all broken down.
Do confront him about this, but let me tell you, there will be no easy way out of this. Once a guy "used" to have sex with you, even from time to time, there's no "going back to just friends" with them.
Probably the best would be if he dropped his GF, and instead entered an open relationship with you...obviously you have no problem with him sleeping around.
You feel "used"? Well, that's your own fault for agreeing to fuck a taken man. I doubt he "really loves her" if he's so willing to cheat on her with another woman! I suggest you don't get in a "serious" relationship with him. That kind of man is prone to cheating. If he can cheat on her, than he can cheat on you!
Wow nice so he has deluded into thinking that he actually cares about you when all he wants is to tap that ass occasionally. You feel used because you are being used.
Bet the guy is an asshole too, but since women find that attractive for some reason he has a girlfriend and a fuck buddy.