Is it normal my bf talks so much during foreplay/sex?

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He is always asking if I like it and telling me to cum or telling me when he is going to cum. I'm not very vocal during sex/foreplay so I'm not really sure what to say. It also is a slight turn off when he tells me to cum and some of the other things he says turns me off. Should I tell him or should I try to play along..? What do I say back? I know talking turns him on so I'd like to try to talk back but I really just don't know what to say?

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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    Slap him and tell him to shut the fuck up. And keep fucking him. :)

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    • Justsomejerk
      11 years ago

      ^this

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    • shade_ilmaendu
      11 years ago

      Kinky. ;)

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  • CollegeIsNotAsAwesomeAsIImagin
    11 years ago

    well i guess he might be trying to get some relief from nervousness or is plain to self centered. If you just take whatever he gives you then you will never get a chance to express yourself and steer the experience to something more of your liking. Since he seems like a dominating partner he will also add some and so the pleasure is equally divided amongs you. Communication is always good. Don't just listen to him, talk let him know you are there...

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    If it's a turn-off then you should definetly tell him to talk less, maybe just before the foreplay starts? sure you can try and relax and get into it but if it doesn't turn you on there's not much you can do about that. If him telling you to cum makes you less likely to cum he should shut up

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  • bostonpuckbunny37
    11 years ago

    I think guys who are vocal are incredibly sexy. Personally I think you should just relax and try to let it make you feel as sexy as he thinks you are. If it still does freak you out, definitely talk to him.

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago

    Well I dunno if he's just not very good with the sexy talkins, but I've always enjoyed that sort of thing myself.. >.>

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  • Metazoa
    11 years ago

    Tell him, yous should have good communication about everything.

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    To much porn it seems, most are not very focal during sex

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