Is it normal my bf shares a room with other girls + sees them naked?
So me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months now, and he leads a summer camp for children of all ages together with some of his friends. Yesterday he called me and I discovered they sleep close together with everyone who leads the camp in a small room, and I asked him if they get dressed in that room too, he said yes. So he sees all the girls there changing their clothes and they see him changing his clothes, and they all sleep close together.
I am so disappointed in this! I feel like it's something special to show yourself naked to your boyfriend or girlfriend, it's something you only show that one person you love, something very personal. And he just sees at least 8 of his friends which are girls naked every day. Oh and they get drunk all together, I'm so scared of the things that could happen. Is it normal that I have a problem with this? For me, no one has ever seen me naked the last 10 years except my boyfriend. I don't have a problem with him wathing porn daily, but this is different, because I feel like that having sex with my boyfriend is not intimate/special anymore, because his body is not 'only mine' anymore or smething, while it feels special to me that he's the only one I show myself completely to.
Also one day he went out with my friends (I had to go home but he stayed with my friends for a while) and the next day one of my friends told me she slept with my boyfriend in his bed together with another girl, 1 boy and 2 girls together in 1 bed, it hurted me so much, but he was acting like there was nothing wrong! :/ Is this normal, or is there something wrong with me?