Is it normal my bf looks at my phone without telling me'

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I left the room coz I had to tinkle and I saw him put my phone back but I didn't say anything then I got a msg saying "oh ok" and I'm like WTF did u send a msg on my phone and he is like "why" and then I found out he sent a message to my friend Adam saying we can't hang out coz I have a boyfriend now! And he was like oh yeh I sent that msg like it wasn't a big deal like he did nothing wrong and then another time I told him my friend was gonna call me soon so he turned my phone on silent and turned it upside down so I wouldn't see do u think this is creepy
he looks at my messages alll the timee!

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Based on 49 votes (12 yes)
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  • tori
    13 years ago

    I never let anyone touch my phone. Just like my purse. I dont have anything to hide. It's just some things are mine alone. Raising 2 kids, a husband you sometimes lose privacy. Ask him nicely to not touch your phone. Or just keep it with you.

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  • lovely55
    13 years ago

    My bf did that to me too. Sadly he found out I was cheating and we broke up :( It's normal..means he likes you

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    • JoeyAnne
      13 years ago

      lovely55 gave her boyfriend reason to be suspicious because she was cheating. If you are not giving your boyfriend a reason then you have nothing to worry about. Your boyfriend is just a little insecure. Just let him know you don't want him doing that and reassure him that you're not doing what lovely55 was.

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  • polkadot101
    12 years ago

    I find it easier to put a passcode on it or a lock on it

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    If you are in a relationship you shouldn't be chatting with other men anyways.

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  • wildflowerkmk
    13 years ago

    Uhh yeah that's not normal. He shouldn't be doing that. Talk to him about it and tell him it bothers you. If he doesn't listen, get outta that relationship!

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  • Askyouknow
    13 years ago

    Talk to him if he still don't trusts you kick him in the balls and just leave

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  • oneonone
    13 years ago

    Dump him. With out trust you don't have a proper relationship. Next he'll start questioning you were have you been with who and why didn't you tell me.

    He's jealous and possessive , it's not healthy

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    he sounds very obsessive and jealous. if i was you, i would split with him. do you really want to be with someone who pretends to be you and its only a matter of time before he turns your friends against you.
    chances are he is cheating on you too for him to be checking your phone. people always assume everyone else thinks the way they do. you deserve someone who will respect your privacy and space and will encourage you to see your friends. we all need to see our friends outside of our relationships. we all need space away from our loved one. i bet that if you say you want your friends over for a girls night, he will be sitting outside your house waiting to see who you have over, expecting you to have another guy over.
    unfortunately my sister went out with a guy like that and he ended up beating her up. dont let it get that far. end it now.

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  • chatter289
    13 years ago

    I do not think its right that he is replying back to your friends pretending to be you, because thats just out of line.

    Looking through your fone and stuff is normal i guess, at first when you start dating someone because because the 'bond' between the two of you is not strong enough.

    He may be having some insecurity issues or trust issues or both. Being insecure means you cant trust someone, so, if you are new to the relationship i can KINDA understand why he might be doing it, but him replying back IS NOT normal at all i dont think. Have a word with him and tell him that its not right

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    He sounds manipulative and insecure. If he's already impersonating you because he's jealous of other guys, imagine how he may manipulate you yourself. No offence, but he doesn't sound like a keeper.

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