Is it normal my bf is doing coke.

smoke some weeeeed instead

youd be better off with a boyfriend who doesnt need coke to have a good time with you

how often does he do coke?

Don't get down on him for being alive.

So what, as long as he's not an addict, let him have his fun.

boo hoo. i think it's my business. boo hoo. i'm too uptight and closed minded so if i'm not having fun, no one can

tell him to do crack instead

I sometimes used to have a few e's when i'd go out with a girl who didn't take any drugs and she said they were some of the funniest nights out we had together, i'd dance like a complete prick and she would piss herself laughing.

I don't know how you can be with someone like that to start with.

Wow most of y'all are losers. What the hell is wrong with you people. When someone is hurt you make fun of them? It's disgusting.

He's a loser, and you need to dump him and move on. There are plenty of good catches out there who stay free and clear of drugs. Keep your standards high instead, and go find one.

Best Wishes!!!

Try to make him him go to rehab,
even if he says, no, no, no
He needs your back,
so make him come back,
let him go, go, go
afterwards he'll be fine.
And he'll love you for a long time..
You gotta make him go to rehab.
make him go, go, GO!

Just be glad he's not on Pepsi.

Seriously though,, if the lifestyle of your S/O is incompatible with your own - whether due to drugs, shoplifting, religion, politics, whatever - you can always LEAVE and find somebody more to your liking.

If that doesn't appeal to you, issue him an ultimatum,, choose the coke or me. His choice should then tell you all you need to know.

You should be more concerned about him getting help instead of complaining about how annoying you find his addiction to be!

I think it really depends on how often it does it. I am a guy but my girlfriend drinks and does drugs and I honestly prefer her doing cocaine to drinking.

Be honest now, cocaine does not mess you up and makes you inadequate, throw up all over yourself and pass out. I know its a hard-drug and especially in the long run it is not good for anyone but you should not take it personally.

Most likely for him its just releasing stress and his way of partying. in any case it's better that you know about it and he does not have to hide and all that, because that is really killing for relationships in my opinion. Just keep an eye on him and make sure he does not make it a daily thing, maybe try sharing the experience with him at least once so that you can better relate and understand why he does it?

he is wasting his time because the high only last for 2 to 4 hours long and then you have to sniff some more his time and money

Happens to the best of us, if it's a regular thing its a problem, if it's once every 3-5 months... that's... actually I've had 3 boyfriends so far, and they all admitted to doing coke or some other drug; especially in your early 20's you will find ~75% of them have tried, plan to try or are on something, be anything from cigarettes to heroin

Hahaha Redeyes... Good one

Get a new boyfriend he sounds like an arsehole

coke is stupid cuz everyone does so much they cant get a boner......BORING! i would rather eat a bunch of pot and aggressively cuddle for hours on end

Only when someone is hurt because someone else is having fun.

It's not fair!
to remind me Of the cross I bared
That you gave to me
You, you
You
Oughta know!