Is it normal my bf and i haven't had sex

50% Normal
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It's almost been 2 years since we've meet and we haven't had a sex yet. I'm a 26 year old virgin and he's 23 and not a virgin. It took over a year for us to do oral. I'm scared of sex and my fear of pregnancy is too much. Plus I'm scared it'll hurt. I have a pretty low to non existent libido. He has a pretty high libido and can not keep his hands off of me. I see people talk about how they have sex 3-7 times a week and to me that seems excessive. He tells me he's okay if I never want sex cause he says it's overrated but he still would like to do it with me. But is it normal that we haven't had sex?

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50% Normal
Based on 16 votes (8 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    You should just go for it. If you're worried about pregnancy speak to a family planning clinic about contraception.

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    5 years ago

    It's normal. Don't do it just for him, if you do.

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    • wowmelody
      5 years ago

      Thank you. I won't do it just for him if I do.

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  • trexagireve
    5 years ago

    He is not your boyfriend and you are not his girlfriend those terms are used when you have sex

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  • athem
    5 years ago

    It's completely normal to not have sex, especially if you don't want it.

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  • Jeni18
    5 years ago

    I have sex 3-7 times a day some times although that gets tiring.

    I love being used in all holes.

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    • wowmelody
      5 years ago

      Errr why?...How do you have time to have sex that much...

      Well this is the internet. Who knows if that's even true.

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      • Jeni18
        5 years ago

        It's fun. It's better than watching t.v. I go out to clubs and pick up guys or girls. I really don't care who it is so it's easy.

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  • jtkirkfan2002
    5 years ago

    It's normal to abstain. The world wouldn't have you think so, but I am going to speak from a Christian perspective and say that there is nothing wrong with abstaining.

    After two years, are you talking to him about marriage and if not, then you might want to examine why you are with him at all.

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    • wowmelody
      5 years ago

      Well neither of us are religious or are abstaining for religious reasons. We do not talk about marriage and I don't want to get married. Hell, we haven't even said 'I love you' to each other. We just haven't had sex because I have negative views about sex in general.

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      • McBean
        5 years ago

        This relationship of yours lacks the intimate dynamics of mature sexuality. Go to bed with this guy, and get naked. Play with his cock. Take your time. Then, suck him off.

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        • wowmelody
          5 years ago

          Uuuuuuuuuuuuuuugh

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