Is it normal my best friend from high school gave me a booty call?

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We got along so well in high school, told each other everything, and had so much fun. He always liked me in a romantic way, but I told him over and over I didn't like him like that. But, I think he had a thing for me. I went away to college, and we saw each other less and less then grew apart.

Now, he has had a girlfriend for 2 years. He contacted me in November and we talked lightly. When I came home for Christmas, I didn't contact him because I thought it was unfair to his girlfriend. I think he still likes me romatically.

Then on New Years Eve, he texted out of the blue at 3 AM with a "What are you doing". Now normally, that would have booty call written all over it. So I blew him off. I haven't talked to him since.

Now I am wondering if it was a booty call, or if he just got drunk enough to call me.
Is it normal for him to contact me because he cares? Or is it not normal and was it a booty call?

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  • Crusades
    10 years ago | pl

    Call of booty. Modern whorefare.

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    • handsignals
      10 years ago

      Is that on PS4?

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      • Crusades
        10 years ago

        No. The PS4 hardware can't handle the graphics.

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  • Paradiddle
    10 years ago

    Mmm, this has assumptions written all over it. It could very well be that he wanted to talk to you in a friendly way and its not like the guy doesn't have other female friends. I understand that he did like you in the past and that makes it seem like he still has something but without knowing the definite truth or straight asking, it just seems like a harmful guess that it was a booty call with just that small greeting. He probably could have added a friendly "hello" and he should make his intentions clear but either way, assuming backfires sometimes.

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  • DangerousPotatoGuy
    10 years ago

    Ouch, at least you could have listened to what he had to say

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  • Barracuda
    9 years ago

    if it was a normal text any other time asking you what you are doing, then ok. but the fact that he texted that at that time of the night.! put two and two together.

    this sounds like a situation i was in, actually still am, because the guy is getting married, but i knew for a FACT he was romantically attracted to me, and still is. and so am i. but like you, i would dare not act on it, for the sake of his girlfriend.

    there is nothing you can do to completely get rid of the attraction. its always going to be there. no matter what they say how in love theyre with her. there will always be that flame especially if you both never acted on it,

    but be careful though. yes this might have been an invitation to a booty call but remember its just that. a booty call. he will go back to his gf as loyal.

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  • noid
    10 years ago

    Could just turn off your phone at night.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    He probably didn't want to have a bootay call with you. You might have jumped to conclusions. Apologise and hear him out. Is there any need to lose a good friend over this?

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago

    Hey, how do you know without talking to him. You need to find out what he wants.

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