Is it normal:men please help me

Okay....so this guy was flirting me then he started ignoring me.at first he smiled a lot and played footies with me and starred at me and I would see him doing it in the corner of my eye. Even after he found out that I like him he still flirted with me. Then he joined the football team and now he ignores me. And now I'm not so into him cause he bearly even talkes to me now. I don't understand. I really liked him and I thought he liked me back....but now I'm not so sure that he did. I'm so confused!

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Comments ( 27 )
  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    Your fault, no games here. He liked you, you liked him, nothing happened, so he thought, fuck it, Im not wasting my time with this bitch. Simples

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  • annikins

    As much as it sucks, lots of times things just don't work out for one reason or another. My sister did possibly one of the best tough love things for me ever when I was in a similar situation; she sat me down an watched he's jus not that into you.

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  • shin10912

    mind games. he got you to think of him all the time. hope he's not just playing games...

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  • Who_Fan4Life

    Throw poop at him.

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    • IHATEUSERNAMES

      YEAH! what a great idea! gosh i cant believe how smart some people are! haha

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  • dirtybirdy

    Carry on with your life.

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  • fartonmyface

    Maybe he's playing hard to get?

    Oh, and for those who say how annoying it is when guys do this, trust me, it's not just guys. You girls do this all the time. "I know I'm hot so I'm going to flirt with this guy and make him like me but I have thousands of options so I won't take it any further." This kind of behavior is selfish and is ruining the notion of falling for someone. You have to really know how to keep your heart closed until you are 200% sure the other person feels the same. Because trust me, people will pull a complete turnaround in just one day.

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  • thinkingaboutit

    he doesn't like you anymore.

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  • Jrgina

    Sad...
    But carry on.

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  • alexandriavaqueraqqwwqoou

    Yeah..I've just decieded I'm going to forget about him....his not worth my time.

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  • Corleone

    People can get flighty. Either that, or he's playing games with you. Oh well, plenty of other men in the world.

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  • dappled

    Something like this happened to me once. I really liked a girl and we were getting somewhere then suddenly, bang! She didn't want to know. A "friend" confessed to me years later that he'd told her I was just tricking her, then he asked her out.

    Not saying this is true in your case, but it does happen.

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    • PapzBSlim

      Lol you again. My current girlfriend almost didn't go out with me because her best friend's cousin said that I was just "playing" her. The cousin ended up kissing me that same night and I told the girl I liked(current girlfriend) what happened. That is when she noticed the cousin was actually "playing" her to get with me.

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  • EvilUncleEarnie

    Unfortunately he apparently wasn't really interested in having a relationship with you. My suggestion find someone who isn't a football player (most of them are dicks anyway), check out the guys who have a future other than selling used cars or working in a fast food place. Check out the nerds and geeks. Pay them attention and you will have a guy forever...

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  • lelouch82

    Just because some person flirts with you doesn't mean that very person genuinely likes you.. Believe me, I've gotten that shit from alot of girls who flirted with me..

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  • peterr

    He is a fucking fruit!

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    Well there is really not enough info to go off here. I can give you a few possibilities. 1.You only perceived he is ignoring you and hes just been really busy with football 2. He thinks he is a big hot shot now since he is in football 3.He somehow got the idea you dont like him anymore 4.Hes playing you to make him chase you. 5.He saw it as something different than you and might believe you are just good freinds. I would say try to talk to him about it. It might be a miscommunication.

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  • robbieforgotpw

    Please post this on the teen forum thank u

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  • Mersaphe

    You had your chance but wasted it. Now that he's on the football team he's probably dating some other girl now.

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  • Francophile22

    He's a game-playing, manipulative douche-bag.

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  • campbellrt

    He's a dick. Tell him to take you or leave you!

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    • alexandriavaqueraqqwwqoou

      Already gave up on that jerk...not worth it

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  • Terence_the_viking

    His coach said no poom poom while training

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  • PapzBSlim

    He may have been tricked or someone who likes him is making a rumor about you. You should ask him why you two stopped talking though.

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  • pampers

    LMFAO. Yes do the above and hit him with warm feces. Or runs in a cup.

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  • Ldizzy1234

    I hate this kind of bs that some guys pull. I had a similar thing like this happen to me once. If I were you, I'd just forget about him now.

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  • alexandriavaqueraqqwwqoou

    Yeah....I guess it happens to everyone once in a while....but do u think he liked me back or just messing with my head??

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