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Is it normal that girlfriends lose interest in sex with her mates after like 3 years of dating?
That happened to me again. For 2 years it was pretty wild, but now I feel that she dont have the same interest anymore.
There are a great many reasons a woman might lose her libido. If this is a serious problem you must discuss it with your girlfriend. Be as honest and direct as possible. Express yourself in emotional terms. If her lack of sexual interest makes you feel hurt and insecure then say so. Say whatever it is you really feel, but be kind and understanding. Ask her what you can do to get her going again.
Some possibilities:
-She might be depressed. Depression will knock the wind right out of a woman's sails.
-Has she recently started taking new birth control, or stopped using her old birth control? In either case her hormones could be out of whack.
-She may feel unappreciated. As much as you need sex, she needs substantive emotional connection. Are you holding up your end of the bargain?
-Worst case scenario, she's done. If she is checking out of the relationship then she is bound to be checking out sexually.
There are tons of other potential reasons, but why think about this any longer? Go talk to your girl and make certain she knows it's because you love her that you miss being with her.
Your just really satisfied right now. Give it some time. And you will be having sex again
Normal! cuz its going on in my relationship as well. i dunno but its just kinda nice to just cuddle and talk. sex to me is for new and young couple relationship. =D
I am sorry to say, its normal, once they feel they have the hooks, it all goes away, don't let the gals fool you. Most women play the same game. She probably was having sex only because you wanted it, acted like she did and got tired of the act after awhile, pretty typical. Marry them it only get worse. Most of the comments by girls here are just part of the games they play.
tried all that with mine, still acts like she is doing it for queen and counrty
yes because when you start its all new.. new person.. new things.. but after a while if its the same rutine then it gets BORiNG ! you just need to spice it upp ;) !
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! If your really trying to keep the excitment forever, then try new things! I'm a girl and I know that woman hate it when guys do the same thing over and over! Exmaple, if go on a date everyday and bring chocolate's and flowers EVERY SINGLE DAY!, girls get tired of it and they go look for more magic and romance! So if you don't want to be on the Dr. Phil show talking about how your girlfriend cheated on you, then I think you my litte friend need to step it up in the bedroom and make it happen so that she can stay happy for a very very very very very very very long time!
-Love,
Sodapopgal22
I sometimes lose it wehen stressed...like last year i had shit loadsa college work to do so it was like the last thing on my mind, so when it came to it i was too tired an uninterested
maybe its the same old sex and she is bored? try spicing things up a little.
People have different levels of interest in sex, just as people have different levels of interest in people of a particular sex. And it is possible for that to change over time. As long as you are okay with it, it is fine.
dunno if it's normal... I don't really have a sex drive if I'm not in a relationship... but I got a crazy sex drive if I'm in one. thats probably cause I'm a robot tho.
woops, kind of wish my wife would lose interest she shares with to many guys
Don't worry you will lose that interest too :)
You need to make her really horny before sex.
you just need to find new sex things too do..
probably just bored of the same old same old