Is it normal longdistance relationship meet at rehab

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I recently started dating my boyfriend, we live 7 hours away from eachother. we meet at rehab, he got out 2 days after i got there, but he wrote me while i was there. he wrote me his number and meet me at the bus station before i left so he could say goodbye. he asked me to be his girlfriend, and of course i said yes. we have alot incommin. this is my first sober relationship. i feel extreamly comfortable with him and have told him things about my life i have never been comfortable telling anyone before. he is 4 years older than i and he is very sweet. we have only been dating a little over a week, we havent told eachother we love eachother havent even brought up anything sexual orriented. he seems to be very honest with me. he said he is usually the type to be an in and out kinda guy but not with me is what he says. i guess what im wondering is how do i know he is serious about this or if hes just saying these things to say them? i mean i trust him, but it almost seems to good to be true. hes everything ive always dreamed of and now that im finally with him its amazing. i dont worry about what hes doing or who hes with... i mean should i though i mean about other women? weve only been together a little over a week and arnt most guys his age how do i put this only have sex on the brain.i guess i just need some advise or something i dont know lol, dont have a mom or a dad, raised myself so i guess i need some other perspectives and some help =)

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  • Tystick
    11 years ago

    Judge judy might speak the truth. But if I was ever to go on that show they couldn't show it. I would cuss her ass out. But then again I'm not a hepless dumbfuck that would appear on her show. They wouldn't let me. Thats where that show makes money! The people who don't have guts! And this old midget bat makes millions off it

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  • simba1
    11 years ago

    Its fine to like him, its fine to enjoy his company and have fun. But, the fact you say you trust him after a week, I find a little disturbing. Trust is something that builds between two people over time. I wish you all the best, but think you need to watch a few episodes of Judge Judy. There are always cases on there where people get into a relationship, and, in a very short time, they are getting loans for their partner, sharing credit cards, etc. And, as she says "Beauty fades, dumb is forever." I wish you all the best, both with your new boyfriend and with the results of rehab.

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  • Sweetz
    11 years ago

    People find love in comfort and since you two were both in rehab there was something you both had in common. Hope it all goes well...though some people end up in rehab again and again.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    That's so cute (: just be careful and keep a close eye on him so yoo don't get hurt if he does turn out too be like most other guys.
    But he sounds quite genuine. Good luck ! (: x <3

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  • NerdyChickFTW
    11 years ago

    It's normal to have strong feelings toward someone immediately after the relationship has been initiated, especially if you feel like you can tell them anything. For now, I wouldn't worry about other women. Just watch out for suspicious activity, and don't get your hopes too high. A lot of guys out there are just looking for a bit of tail, but then there's the genuine guy who just wants to settle down with a genuine girl. Just don't rush into anything. You'll be fine. (:

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