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My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. His friends don't understand why he's still with me when I am so far away. Every time he hangs out with his friends I get so much anxiety because i know they will have an influence on him. Is this normal?
yes this is extremely normal. If you think you got it bad imagine his side. I mean if I were in a long distance relationship (i'm a guy) I know for sure I couldn't help thinking about the girl and when she's with other guys because it would be so easy for her to cheat and such. Same goes with ur situation.
But the important thing is, if you want this relationship to work out, to keep in contact. Text each other all the time, even if its just a good morning or goodnight.
And be sure to try to see him. Whenever you have a vacation or something try to travel to visit him. It'll show him you really care and want the relationship to last
I had a long distance relationship, 3 hours one way. for 3 years. it ended up failing bcuz of the distance.
Its gonna get to a point that trust will no longer exist, suspicion will replace it in your mind since its a fact most guys, given a chance to cheat and not get caught, they will go for it. I hate to say it like that but statistics can show, guys are cheating ass dogs. Many of them think they are to smooth to get caught. If he starts tryin to turn things around on you in conversations, red flag. If there are times he wont answer phone when you know damn well he should be, red flag. Listen to your female intuition and that little voice in back of your mind, you have to, in order to protect yourself and not get made a fool of. hopefully he wont do it, but the chances exist.
Completely normal. I live in LA and my girlfriend/fiancee lives in NYC, she's actually going through a divorce right now so we can get married but I'm scared sh*tless that she's going to turn last minute and say "you know what, no. I'm still in love with him"
It's normal to have fears about others influences on your partner when you're in a long distance relationship.
totally normal. if i was in ur situation i'd feel the same way. it's easier to cheat if ur bf/gf is far away. but if you really love him, you should trust him. talk to each other a lot and see each other now and then..it can work out. good luck.