Is it normal live a love story like this??

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Recently I've met a girl; I find her fascinating: the way she talks, the way she looks, her smile... We get along quite well, she is always nice to me, but we're just friends at the moment.

However, she's got a very dark past as she's known for having been a violent racist once. She is honest with me about this and she has the intention to change and become a better person, but I can't help being a bit scared.

The thing is, I'm madly in love with her while I don't want to get involved with a neo-nazi. I sometimes try to avoid her, but I fear she might notice and her feelings get hurt.

I'm not sure if she likes me back, I think she does because she is always suggesting that we go for a coffee together, but I always make excuses.

Is this all normal? What should I do?

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Based on 30 votes (21 yes)
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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    She seeks to change herself. With that in mind, I think you should give dating her a chance. As you said, she is wonderful. Maybe you could help her become a better person by understanding her more. Anyways, don't let her past become a factor on your decision to date her, she wants to change and I think you two can hit it off.

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    • Alison89
      12 years ago

      I know where you're coming from with advising to give her a chance and since she's trying to change, hope she actually can change. At the same time, I'd be really cautious about getting into a relationship with someone whose values are far different from his.

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      • Anime7
        12 years ago

        I agree I would be weary. However, if I hung out with a girl who makes me laugh and smile, I'd be willing to give her a chance.

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        • Alison89
          12 years ago

          True. Good point. There's a lot to be said about how someone makes you feel.

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  • miwmiw
    12 years ago

    just do what will make you happy...and nothing else matters :)

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  • hemper
    12 years ago

    I say lay off on a committed relationship for a while and get her to be less psudo-nazi then when you are comfortable with how she is then go for it. although all this is easier said than done, good luck :P

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I'd give her a chance. I'd want to be given a chance. I am naive person. If you're worried, even a little, there's plenty of fish in the sea.

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  • Its_Called_Love
    12 years ago

    Violent in what kind of way....?

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  • toliety
    12 years ago

    It's what ever u want it 2 b

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  • sunny_wantsome
    12 years ago

    i don't understand what is wrong in the story?

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