Is it normal kids wanting to date poeple 20 years older ?

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I do not understand this at all this happened to that nuaghty old math teacher , this happened with charlie manson and it keeps happening anywere . why do children want to date poeple 20 years older than them ? I do not understand this I remember watching this all through my highschool I have like 5 outve 10 freinds who said they were dating someone over 20 years older than them . I ask them why they tell me how cool they are . I beg to ask do you realize that is against the law . Theyd hush me and beg me not to tell needless to say it always ended badly as they would dump them the next day or hurt them pyshicly than they came crying " I do not understand what happened " can someone explain why children are so stupid as to not understand how a relationship works ? and why we have these sort of laws I am just wondering thier must be a reason these poeple are so stupid I also fail to understand were they met these poeple ? I dont understand why are teenagers so wacked in the head " ? I mean do they not teach from preschool dont go with anyone who says they are looking for thier puppy yet these poeple say I know he doesnt want a puppy but I am going anyways . This irritates me at thier stupidity and they never understand what happened even if you were to scream it in thier ears ? do they not have that little cricket telling them whats right and wrong ? Also ive seen like 3 posts like this that said oh " im 17 " and in love with my "40 " year old teacher is this normal ? How dumb do you have to realize this is not normal ?

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  • tellmeimwrong
    11 years ago | pl

    Your very ignorant and stupid, the teachers are the ones at fault, I'll admit when I was in high school and an attractive woman 20 years older than me wanted me I would JUMP at the chance. How do adults date kids though? This I'll never understand. Having an attraction to an adult when you're young is very normal, there's countless people who look good for their age.

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago

      When you date someone you also have to take into accoutn their is a age diffrence . With this diffrent ages are going to generally be more advanced and want more if you fate someone that much older they are going to be alot smarter and gonna desiere more than just holding hands . No one ever considers any of these variables I consider these things in seeing a solution to problems and I always know if thier is a possible problem even if I dont know ill sit thier for painsaking hours trying to figure it out , so what is a normal person thinking ? I understand basic machanices thats why I am good at fixing poeples issues generally however I do not understand these poeple at all ? what is the logic behind it i dont understand this at all .

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      • Dad
        11 years ago

        tellmeimwrong, was just stating that obviously the adults who cannot control themselves are at fault, not the 'kids'.

        But your concern is you don't even understand why on Earth they would ever contemplate such a thing, let alone do it!
        I'll tell you that the 'adult' has lured or provided exactly what the young girl wants (for his own selfishness) Generally many will fall for this.

        Don't think for an instant that young girls are looking at 40yo men as hot, or a relationship. The 'relationship' has been originated by the older man.

        Whatever you want, you can't refuse.

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        • Allistalla
          11 years ago

          That was my piont I do not understand why a kid would do this ? I never did I always thought it was illogical I found most relationships illogical and piontless at the time . I do not understand human benes but some how I know how to solve thier problems I dont understand how this is but I never understand why these kids see this as " Great idea " !

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          • Dad
            11 years ago

            I don't actually know your age. But any older adult can make it a 'great idea' in your mind (yes your mind too)

            Since this is a criminal offense I suppose I shouldn't outline the steps. Just be aware that 'grooming' a child is something men responsibly decide not to do.
            The adults that have started relations with your friends or teenagers you have heard of, are very deceiving and sly. Since they risk jail time, their persuasions may be critical to these teenagers.

            What do they really have over them? Hiding the truth, and some teenagers like living in fantasy land.

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago

      no but I mean thier is poeple who are 14 going for poeplethat are 30 or over 50 poeple with wrinckles also I do not see how this is normal I never wanted to date anyone the age of my dad or grampa . Its normal like someone older but that much older? Also they do not understand why the adults leave them and start treating them like krap . They do not understand basic stuff I do not know maybe im the abnormal one but I never understude things like this . I do not know maybe I am not good at understanding a childs logic I always fealt like I was looking through a glass I never expiereinced things like them I was like a martian but I do not see how they see this as normal ? they think it is ok I do not understand why this is so very alluring ? explain to me that " ? just becuase I am the one asked for advice doesnt mean this makes any sense to me humans never did. explain to me the psychology behind this ?

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  • AssBurgers
    11 years ago

    Cougars are cool, deal with it.

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  • lufa
    11 years ago

    Cause of George Michael's "Father Figure" song of course.

    You know what's funny, when I was in my 20s, I'd flip out like you did over big age differences. Now in my late 30s, I see no problem with it so long as they abide by the legal age of consent.

    What I find disgusting is when the older person looks like a senior citizen.

    But I think it's a law of nature-men want younger, more attractive women, while women want older, mature, established men to breed with.

    Let's face it, younger guys tend to be a bunch of douchebags who have little direction in life. We are like fine with and get better with age-some of us, the rest turn into vinegar.

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    • lufa
      11 years ago

      *fine wine

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago

      Id feel alot safer with a teacher becuase at least they might restrain from hitting me for the most part . After 18 they dont care .

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      • lufa
        11 years ago

        Why would you worry about being hit by an older lover? I mean assuming you're not into that 'kinky' stuff.

        I bet teachers must feel like kids in a candy store with all that young poon. lol

        All the more reason they are usually monitored more closely for being potential pedos.

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        • Allistalla
          11 years ago

          thats why i said hitting me .

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        • Allistalla
          11 years ago

          I didnt mean hitting on I mean murdering me with a knife becuase alot of the boys in my school are murderoues and dangerous to women . Most teachers will not threaten to murder thier children . the majority of highschool boys will however for absolutly anything .

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          • AdamIsaBallah
            11 years ago

            Wtf? :o

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          • lufa
            11 years ago

            wow what kind of hellish school do you go to? Is that how bad things have gotten in the US?

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            • Allistalla
              11 years ago

              Even if the teachers and schools teach them other wise they are insane and most them have this attitude that they are at this age Superior and they can abuse thier moms thier dads and any women who says no to them deserves to be slughtered so these kindve children have no respect even for the teachers teaching them . These are not all poeple but this seems to happen after the age of 18 to boys for some reason .

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            • Allistalla
              11 years ago

              I do not know highschool boys seem to think this behavior is normal . They dont care who they hurt they just do whatever they feel like hoping itll make thier boner go away .

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            • Allistalla
              11 years ago

              yah in most the places i went . It not like that everywere just in the schools . I hate all schools I dont trust them at all . YEs however thats how bad the males in highschool tend to get I dont know why this happens alot strangley its less common in really poor schools becuase in the poor ghetto school the sucurity is so tight you cant blink wihtout someone noticing in Ghetto schools.I dont know I figured that the male species was suppose to be like that since I have got this since I was like 9 .

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    I agree with you. Although, in some states, 17 is the legal age of consent. But I know a lot of kids under that age will do anything to get the "cool" status. Although, in high school, I didn't hear too much about teens trying to be with someone who is as old as 40, I did hear a lot of young teen trying to be with some college kid (which is illegal under 17 where I live) just so they can have the "I'm dating someone in college status". I myself, was never attracted to guys my own age. I always found myself attracted to guy four to five years older than myself, but, when I was under 17, I would've never taken the chances on it. I don't think that these youngsters are looking for relationships, though. I think they just want their friends to know that they are with someone who is too old for them, or maybe they are like me, and they don't like anyone their own age, but all in all, it is illegal, and they should stay away from it.

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    Grrr

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    • flutterhigh
      11 years ago

      rawr

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago

      Are you upset at us ? or the question or the thought ?

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      • Imsupernormal
        11 years ago

        This question just had to be asked by you, Allistalla. Only you have such terrible grammar.

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      • ☭алин
        11 years ago

        Are you French? Just wondering

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        • Allistalla
          11 years ago

          For freak sake why does everyone think im french I think the french hate us most of all even though were freinds with them .

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          • ☭алин
            11 years ago

            Lol, just a guess because of your grammar (French people tend to put spaces before punctuation, plus your spellings a bit off)

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            • Allistalla
              11 years ago

              To be honest I type like this all the time most poeple dont ever seem to correct me on it . Most poeple I know type like this and its considered normal .

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            • Allistalla
              11 years ago

              your not suppose to put one ? I dont know I have a wierd habit of spacing everything I dont know why I do it . Also I put a comma before cunjuctions and that seems to annoy poeple for some reason becuase it is a rule but is unescarry . Your not suppose to space inbetween your words ?

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