Is it normal ive had a huge crush on the same girl for years now?

alright i have had very strong feeling for this girl for the past few years now and it has never gone any where i know and accept the fact that i probably will never be more then friends with her don't get me wrong she is a very good friend of mine and has been long since before i was attracted to her but still shes all i think about (sexually and non-sexually) and like i said i know nothing will ever happen between but it still drives me crazy and i want nothing more than to be with her ive told her how i felt before and she completely destroyed me but still and its not like ive only tried for her ive been with other girls since but i cant seem to develop any type of feelings for them no matter what i want be with her and only her don't get me wrong i really value are friendship we have been extremely close for years now tell each other everything that sort of shit but still no matte how hard i try i just cant express my true feelings for her and it kills me inside... well thank you for reading my long and probly confusing rant

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Comments ( 6 )
  • VioletTrees

    Maybe you need to get away from her. It sounds like she's not interested in a romantic relationship with you. If you think you can be her friend and move on, that's cool, but if you can't, you need to get away. You can't spend the rest of your life dwelling on one girl.

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  • anti-hero

    It's a dead end road.

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  • Halloween_Babygirl

    Actually, me & my boyfriend were in the same situation. We stopped talking for a year or so... When we finally started talking again we ended up together. It's been 2 years... So maybe take a break and come back..? c:

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  • creations_simpicity

    Pity, i tell u i think i'm in the same ship my friend. But its life and sometimes life doesn't match up with dreams. what can we do

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  • MTL1909Fan

    Well, it seems that you need time away from her.

    (An alternative of this would be her going to a different country, like Cuba)

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  • Lilliamaranth

    u need to get away from her

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