Is it normal? is it fair? idk?

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Okay, me and my boyfriend broke up awhile ago for not a real good reason and my mom was quick to assume there was someone else he was talking to.

Me and him eventually got back together and he started saying he disliked my mom. Wasn't going to her house for Christmas. Blah blah blah.
Called her a bitch and all.

I dislike his grandma. she told me she didn't like me because I like to keep to myself.. In my room as much as possible. I'm not very social.

I told him how I felt about her.

He got extremely mad and texted me and asked if anyone was awake at my moms cause he wanted to break up and take me home.

I told him it was no different than him disliking my mom other than him calling her names. & he said I don't have a real reason to dislike his grandmother.

I believe I do have a reason. She told everybody including me that he dislikes me cause I keep to myself.

I mean.. WHAT do I do? What do I say to him? Am I wrong? Is he in the wrong?

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  • college
    10 years ago

    I find that people get pretty defensive when it comes to their mothers and grandmothers, which is why "yo momma" jokes became so popular. Instead of trying to figure out who's in the wrong, I'd just agree to leave mothers and grandmothers out of the relationship. However, I do think both of you should have the right do disagree with certain things that your mother and his grandmother do, but perhaps only comment on those actions without insulting the person or saying that you dislike the whole person.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    I think you should break up. Seems like you are both trying to find reasons or excuses to do so, without confronting the real problems.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Questioning whether or not it's fair is a waste of time; it's not working so move on to bigger and better things.

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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    10 years ago

    How old are you guys?

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Hes an idiot breaking up for you cause you dont like his grandma for disliking you. If he will break up over stupid shit like that I dont think dating him is worth it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    You Hatfield's and McCoy's will never get along!

    Time to find someone new :)

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  • skylurrlove
    10 years ago

    I don't think he should get mad at you you shold get mad at the most he called your mother a name

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