Is it normal: intense arguements

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My girlfriend is going to greece on the 30th of this month. it's the 25th right now and we've been getting into a few arguments and she seems to get really mad at me, but everytime she gets close to her period she thinks she's pregnant because we sometimes have sex unprotected. I usually tell her it's all okay and if it happens then I will take care of it. (the child) but this time I really thought she was pregnant because she said her boobs hurt and she felt she might be pregnant.

So this time I was calmy convinced that she was pregnant, I went over to her house and we were alone. I told her about a thing called plan b which we had used once before. It gives you a period before your actual time and it gets rid of any egg that is in the woman.

I should have never said anything about it because it only works the night after and she was really mad.

I'm a really emotional person and I cried lots, I am totally scared of her leaving me and not letting me be in her life.

I said that option because I was scared that her parents wouldn't let me see her anymore. I wanted to be able to see her and I thought that was a way she wanted to go about. It wasn't and tonight we got into another argument and I said I was just trying to understand why she didn't wanna have sex anymore.

and she says its because I said we're not ready and she said if we're not ready for a baby then we're not ready for sex.

I am scared that she is going to leave me when she goes to greece but she says she loves me a lot.

we have SO much in common and she says she really loves me and would never leave me.

we've been dating 7 months total now.

I want to know about what to do with this situation because sex with her is amazing and I want to know is it normal?

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  • EdgeMasterED
    13 years ago

    Don't worry Greek guys are usually tall, tan, well-endowed, muscular, and have "hot" accents.

    As long as she's not into any of that stuff, you should be fine.

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    • RoseIsabella
      11 years ago

      Hahaha

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  • AngelaChase
    9 years ago

    It seems to me that your girlfriend might be craving attention (or drama) if she is worrying every month that she's pregnant. It's normal to have a scare once in a while if your period is late, but most people who are truly concerned about becoming pregnant take steps to prevent it. It's also possible that she's just not ready for sex and she's using the risk of pregnancy as an excuse.

    It's hard to say for sure what's going on in her mind and in her heart. The only thing you can control is your actions. One thing is for sure… unless you are actively looking to start a family, you should be using protection.

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  • RoseIsabella
    11 years ago

    Is your girlfriend pro life? If so, I think she's right. If ya'll aren't ready for a baby then ya'll don't need to be having sex. If you really love her and want to eventually get married then it won't kill you if ya'll don't have sex anymore.

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  • buckman
    13 years ago

    Huh?

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  • buckman
    13 years ago

    She's probably NOT pregnant, and if she were her parents couldn't keep her from you because it would be your baby too.. And, you should always use protection. She should be on birth control and you should use a condom every time. If you can't be responsible, you shouldn't be having sex. Not to mention HIV, Herpes and Hep which do not go away. So you should be tested for everything once a year and so should she.

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  • jensapa
    13 years ago

    If your truly right for each other u will get back together. Maybe s bit of time apart will make u appreciate each other more. An for gods sake bye some rubbers or get her on the pill! It ain't that hard. An boobs do get saw before periods start.

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