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My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. Its really obvious I love him more. I do so much stuff for him. Like leave him cute voicemails and and send him letters. I get rarely get much in rerurn. Also when I really need him and am having a bad day he just gets mad at me and tries to dump me. When all I want is to know he cares.
You sound like a good girlfriend and he sounds like he doesn't deserve you.
*kicks door open*
Its completely normal to choke a woman when shes wielding a knife...
Oops, wrong room.
*walks backwards through door*
It's not the distance that matters, but he obviously doesn't love you like you love him. That's why it can't work. Find someone who will love you.
Didn't read beyond "me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship".
Human beings need to be together. It's something as vital to a relationship as oxygen to a fire. Whatever the problem is, your relationship is doomed to failure if you can't close the gap.
I have given some thought about how to say this positively, and I can't find a way so I'm going to say it negatively and hope you realise that I'm not attacking you (even though it's going to appear that way).
How do you feel qualified to answer a person's question when you didn't take the time to read the very short paragraph they wrote? How would you feel if someone attacked the Bible having read only the words "The Bible" printed on the front of it and not the text within?
There’s just some things that don’t need further explanation.
It’s like reading a thread titled “IIN My Wife Hates Me?” and it starts with “So I like to beat my wife and-” Nope. I don’t need to read anything beyond that. There’s absolutely nothing he can say from that point on that’s going to change my opinion.
Considering the OP's heartfelt post maybe a more understanding approach was needed but I wouldn't take back a single syllable of what I said.
To the OP: You sound like a genuinely good person. Your boyfriend doesn't deserve you nor does he love you. It's time to leave and find someone who will return your love.
i been in a long distance relationship for a while and he asked me to marry him! love can blosome anywhere as long as u both have an open mind and love can always enter a relationship if they both have an open heart and arms!
I was in a long time relationship once too, at first i didnt care much for my girl because i was in love with this other girl, BUT i was trying to move on from her, so i met this other girl got her number and started talking.
somehow she found a way to crawl inside my heart and i started having feelings for her. She helped me out through many difficult situations which Im deeply thankful for, not only in forgetting about the other girl but other things too. she was a real flirt though with other guys and i didnt like that so we started fighting blah blah blah...
anyways, try with this guy to a point, but if he keeps not caring then try to move on. don't bump yourself up about it too much
Guys like that make me so mad, but im not going to judge him when i dont even know him. if you feel like he is treating you like he doesnt care, then maybe you should talk to him about it. like really sit down and break it down. if you really love him and if he cares he will start putting in the effort you do, when it comes to showing someone you love them. tell him i want you to write me back. or send me (i love you ) email poems or some shiz like that. guys are not very affectionate.