Is it normal im more horny then him

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Im a 22 year old women and i have been dating a 38 year old guy for 5 years now we have a beautiful daughter together and shes 2. anyways i started dating him when i was 18 like 2 days after my 18th bday just figured ahhh give it a shot.

so fast forward till now we had sex all the time but now im lucky if i get laid once a week and im the one that asks for it hes very busy with work and i know he isnt cheating and i love him but this not getting sex is really getting to me. its driving me insane literallyyy i cannot handle i dont know what it is?

i think its the fact of our age difference cuz i know if i was with someone more my age id get it when i want it but im not hes 17 years older then me i dont know what to do anymore im not the type to cheat id rather leave him altogether and be with someone else then hurt him in that way. i wanna know is it normal for me too want it so much more then him? im always the one asking for it and thats starting to get on my nerves too help advice plz thanks

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    I think it's normal and I also think that you could find someone your own age where this would happen over time. Sex drives are different for everybody.

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  • Legion
    12 years ago

    The age difference can sometimes be a problem, but His job may also be a problem. He may have a lot of stress from work and may not feel like sex. Talk to him about it, and maybe ask him about going on a vacation. A nice vacation should help him get his mind off work, and it may put a fire under him. ;)

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    He may be older than you, but that should not be a problem. Many guys older than him enjoy it daily. Unless he had a much lower sex drive when you first married, then it is understandable. But if there is a big change he needs to seek out a doctor, or you need to put back the excitement you both once had in the beginning, be creative! Good luck with your choices.

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