Is it normal im letting this get in the way?

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So basicly theres this girl that i really like, and she likes me too as shes told me.
We talk over facebook all the time and thats really the extent of it, but once we kissed in a club.
Anyway, this girl, shes just so beautiful, words cant explain how stunning she is, and its all natural beauty not some streetwalker with makeup. But thats my problem, is she too good for me? Its just that i agknowledge that im ugly, and sometimes i feel that im too ugly for her, like i would embarrass her for being with me.
Is it normal that im letting this stop me from asking the girl of my dreams out? Please give some advise also :D

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    dude,i not dissin you or anything but have you ever heard katt williams stand up? You gotta ask her the fuck out like you were a trooper.dont hesitate or procrastinate or whatever the term or word may be,just ask her out,if she says no then fuck it,theres like 9 billion people and half of em are girls

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Hope you've asked her out by now!

    Just to let you know - I would never date a handsome man. They are much too vain and would compete with me for the mirror!

    My pals call me - Beauty and the Beast but I've never once been insulted, just defensive of the loveliest man I've ever met, who's such a good person!

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  • YouKnowYouLikeIt
    12 years ago

    Obviously your not ugly if your with someone as gorgeous as her. XD

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Thats what i dont understand

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  • Tarkio
    12 years ago

    Looks are not everything. If you feel a mental -sense of humor- emotional-connection with her, most likely she feels it too.

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  • marmite175
    12 years ago

    buddy sometimes a guy with low confidence lands the hottest girls

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      its not confidence, its my looks

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  • Faceless
    12 years ago

    Go for it connect 4!

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    You're seeing yourself through your own eyes, your own inhibitions, and your own insecurity. What she sees with her eyes is liable to be entirely different. Let her decide whether she wants to be with you or not. Don't make the decision for her.

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  • moomus
    12 years ago

    Let her be the judge on if you are ugly or not!

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  • Sherpa
    12 years ago

    A lot of people worry about being good enough, so it's normal that way. It's common, but it's not nice. She already kissed you in a club, so take the pressure off yourself! Let her decide if you are attractive to her, according to her taste. Be a kind and friendly person and enjoy your time with her. See what happens.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    Wow, i think im goin to do it, you really helped, thanks guys :D

    I really apprecite it and i will keep you updated on how things go :D, i really think she is the 'one'. Thanks

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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago

    I sense much phagotry in this one.
    The dark cock clouds everything. Impossible to see the future is.

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    Ask her out. She likes you. You like her.

    My assumption you're not ugly. Women compliment each other all the time "Becky you're gorgeous!" "Nat you're so cute today!" It helps with confidence because not everyone is born with it.

    Men don't live in a world of compliments. It's natural that when you find a guy that's hard on himself, he's REALLY hard on himself.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Well lets assume i am ugly then, cant you see my problem? Its intimidating and i dont even think she seen my face propely before, would if she thinks im ugly too :(

      And another thing is her bestfriend, shes hot too and girls talk about everything, so her bestfriend could be like 'eww hes ugly'

      helppppp

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      • Appreciate
        12 years ago

        Don't keep stalling yourself and wasting your time on whether you should or shouldn't.

        If you don't, well, i don't really see the point in that, you can just try and fail and it'll basically be the same outcome at the end.

        If you do, hope for the best, and if it doesn't happen, at least you know you didn't spend too much time thinking about it. the longer you stall, the harder it'll be.

        in my opinion, get it over with. if i were you i'd try the moment i read this. Good Luck.

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Beauty can be a bit intimidating but if you don't push yourself, then it will be one more thing you regret

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