Is it normal im jealous of my sibling's boyfriends?

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A couple of years ago my younger sister and I got really close. Like REALLY close, not so much that bordered on incestual but still really close. Anyway, when ever she gets a bf, I seem to get an uncontrollable jealousy toward him to the point where i want to fight him. I feel as though im being betrayed by my sister. I know i should be happy that she is happy with a bf but i want to be the one making her happy like i used to before she started dating. I dont have any of the emotions towards my other sisters bfs. Is this normal?

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  • PrincessLollipop
    12 years ago

    I understand where you're coming from. You probably feel like your losing her. When you're that close to someone & you are used to being their "only", whether it be as a BFF, sister, spouse, etc., it can be hard to learn how to share them again. It's normal, but just try to think outside the box if YOU were in her position & found someone else you really cared about. The last thing you want to do is completely diminish your relationship with her.

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  • SubParPhalus
    12 years ago

    spill water on your bed just before bedtime then ask if u can share with her n see what happens....no of course it isnt normal you are being over protective and a little bit creepy

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