Is it normal im in love with him so much i cry thinking about him?

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He says he loves me too but Im not sure if as much as me. This never happened to me, i got addicted to him, I can't think anything else but him. But I might be turning crazy. I started becomming suicidal and crying myself to sleep. There is always a terrible ending to love. Either one part has enough, or I get uglier older, or I dont even wanna think about it. I dont want to lose him.

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    This is called dread, and any high-value male inspires it. A little uncertainty in a relationship is healthy, but you seem to have overdosed on it. Best solution is to increase your own value so it isn't so far below his.

    Losing weight, dressing nice and getting good at cooking are some common ways. Improve yourself and these fears will subside.

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  • helpful_demon
    7 years ago

    I think it's normal, because it's just your personal reaction and it's what makes sense to your subconscious. if you want, you could consider talking it out with people, either in real life or over the internet in some psych chat room-type deals. don't listen to the comment above me, you don't have to lose weight or change how you dress or act in order to "increase your own value" because you're already valuable just the way you are. :) it sounds like you're in a lot of pain and I really hope things get better for you soon. I believe in you!

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  • Nyx_RoseBlood
    7 years ago

    Honey you shouldn't be feeling this way at all. That's not what a healthy relationship is supposed to be. If you find yourself crying to sleep and wanting to kill yourself because of this boy then maybe he's not right for you. Don't mistake infatuation for love. Real love doesn't always end terribly. Even if you were to get old and less attractive whoever you were with would be in the same boat. It isn't as though you would be alone in your old age. And if you were really in love with each other then he would be there while you were crying. He should be the one helping you with these problems, not the people on this website. There might be two people on this site that are qualified to give quality advice on this type of thing. You should talk to him about this. Not strangers. And if he won't help you then you should take to someone you trust or a therapist. Do whatever it takes to make yourself feel good. You come first.

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