Is it normal: im confused

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Ok well I have known this girl for five years... she lives in New york and I live in California.
We have never seen each other in person. Well we have been dating for seven months and everything was great until the fourth month. After that I always had suspicions she was cheating but never had a reason to I guess i'm just paranoid. Well she says she loves me but we never know what to talk about and i feel like I hate her guts at some times and then I feel like I love her more than anything. I have never cheated on her. we arranged too meet each other in the summer for eight days. But I just broke up with her I miss her but I don't know if i should try to get her back. Im stuck please help.

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  • missalina
    12 years ago

    long distance/internet relationships are weird. ditch your keyboard and go have flesh on flesh human interactions. for all you know she talks to you for fun and has a real life with real people and normal relationships away from the computer. you should do the same. in any situation, if your gut is telling you that your female has gotten cold and distant, you're right!

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Shes secretlly a guy.

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  • JustDave
    12 years ago

    "She" could really be a lonely middle aged man. You could put yourself thru all kinds of stress but what if you meet her & she smells bad, picks her nose in public or has any number of disgusting qualities that don't reveal themselves online.

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    • denswins
      12 years ago

      I've seen her on Skype

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  • normalaccount
    12 years ago

    When in doubt whip it out.

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  • Wierdmyself
    12 years ago

    Go in the flesh man, not on the line! To me long distance seems vaguely unfulfilling

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  • purpledino8
    12 years ago

    Its like if he really cared about me he would say something! But you really shouldn't put ur self through this, move on ..its for the best. Long distance sucks! And never works out

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  • purpledino8
    12 years ago

    I had felt this was about a guy I meet over the internet, we liked eachother but we knew that we lived to far and its to difficult liking someone so much but have no I idea what there really doing .. its to much emotions and I felt that way to about not knowing what to talk about, and then I would be mad at him, then I wouldnt. It was making me crazy, and we just stopped talking..he hasn't texted me and that really makes me sad.

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