Is it normal im 18 and don't know how to sext?

Please help me people, i'm 18 and don't know how to sext and recently i got asked for a "naughty message" and i didnt know what to say or do. Any advice would be greatly appreciated thankyou people i'm really struggling and this is really emarassing and i asked my friends for help and she laughed. And is this normal?

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  • nelly96

    Listen to Anime, NEVER SEND OUT PICTURES! Just never. Anywho, I suppose you should just send some suggestive things. Like act out a fantasy in your head and text every detail of it to the person.

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    • emlarfuckssheep

      Why not sending pics?:s

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      • Avant-Garde

        Haven't you been reading our comments?! It's extremely risky! Let's say you breakup with your significant other, your ex could post your nude photos online, send them to friends or try to blackmail you with them. Does this sound like something worth risking?

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        • emlarfuckssheep

          I read other comments after, and sending pics is easier than sending messages and im not ashamed of my member

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  • Ejay

    I dont like sexting, im not good at it, its just plain pointless, why get turned on when your lover aint there to do you

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  • DannyKanes

    Sext: Is something you'd say if you were having cyber sex. Eg. I want to feel your body pressed against mine or I want to ravish you like a rabid Koala <-------- true story.

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    • emlarfuckssheep

      Rabid koala? Do girls like that? :o

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      • BubbleKitten

        Ohh yeah, we chick DIG the rabid Koala bear.

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  • LC23

    Now that you asked, I just realized I never sexted either.......but it doesn't make sense to get worked up if your boo isn't there physically. Lol if anything be smooth about it and say I rather show you what I can do(or what goodies you have) in person, than talk about it. And you won't have to worry about personal stuff being shown to other people....since it was never sent

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  • Coco-pops

    take a picture of your ding-a-ling

    and send that

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  • nozzy

    just stick something in something else with asterisks surrounding what it is your doing. like so *pokes you in the ear with my finger*

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  • emlarfuckssheep

    I'm pretty good at it apparently..xD

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  • emlarfuckssheep

    I will do..

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  • Willtheman

    just say, "can i see your pussy,girl?"

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  • Avant-Garde

    Neither do I, but I've never had the desire to do so especially, after all the things I've heard about it. There are some precautions to take: NEVER EVER send nude photos of yourself. Don't send photos that you took when you were a minor because I've of heard of people being charged for child pornography and put on the sex offender's list even when it was a photo that they took of themselves. If you do send someone nude photos there's the risk that the person could share it among friends and then post it all over the internet.

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    • emlarfuckssheep

      Thanks

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  • dom180

    Jesus Christ, my sexting is the most forced, unimaginative, repetitive, awkward thing on the planet. Seriously, I'm dreadful at it.

    Not using pronouns like "I", "you", "us", "we" or the other person's name make it easier for me because it feels more impersonal and I can let myself go more. The best thing you can do is just go for it. The first few messages will be awkward, but after that it will start to feel more natural and by the end it might even be fun :)

    And don't send sexy pics. If you break up with whoever you're sending them to, they could use them to blackmail you or show the photos to all your friends (and your enemies, too). You don't want everyone you know to find out what you look like naked (unless you're damn proud of your body, anyway), and if you send sexy pics there's a risk of that happening. If you look up "sexting and bullying" on Google, you'll find lots of stories of kids being bullied terribly because their ex has sent the whole school naked pictures of you. The chance of that happening is low, but it's awful when it happens. Admittedly, this is most often a problem for girls and not guys, but still: it pays to be cautious.

    It's easier when you've done something with the person before. My sexting usually consists of imagining a sexual scenario with the other person, and telling them where my hands are and what I'm doing in this imaginary scenario. Because I find it so awkward and not very satisfying even compared to average masturbation, I never instigate it unless my girlfriend is heavily hinting she wants me to and there's no escape. It is fun though, if you can get over the awkwardness.

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    • emlarfuckssheep

      Thanks dom c:

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  • JasonSwerve

    Same here when a girl sext me I just don't know how to respond

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    • emlarfuckssheep

      Glad im not the only one

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  • Anime7

    DannyKanes gives a pretty good example. I would also say that sexting is sending a nude pic, but I highly don't recommend it.

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    • emlarfuckssheep

      Why?

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      • meowpower

        Also for minors out there, parents. If u EVER DO send pictures DELETE. No dont save. No youve jacked off enuf. I've witnessed friends nd ppl who get in a pile of shit from Sexting piks(nd evn mor w/out deleting)

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      • Anime7

        If you send someone a picture they could put it up on the internet, then everyone will see it. It's just risky business because you never know if the person will do that or not. If you trust the guy then have sex with him, using protection of course, but don't give him something that could possibly be used against you or as blackmail.

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        • emlarfuckssheep

          She's the girl, i'm the guy..

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          • Anime7

            Same advice still applies.

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  • emlarfuckssheep

    I know what it is i just can't do it, i sound like a pathetic excuse for a man, i know. :c

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