Is it normal if what you wear affects your personality

First of all, i love clothes! I love to shop and i love changing up my looks every other time. But one thing i dont like about clothes is that it can drastically change my mood or how i see myself. One day, for example, im wearing shorts and a grey off the shoulder top and just feeling like me, confident no matter what. The next day, im wearing about the same thing, shorts and a black, lose top off both shoulders but this time for some reason, i feel like a little girl that anyone can push over and even my behavior changes. I start acting like a little girl and girly and ughh i hate it! Its not me! Then i try to act like myself but i cant, its not as easy to go back to who you are. Depending what im wearing, is who i am. My real personality doesnt come out because i feel like someone else cause of my clothes im wearing, whether im me and its fine what im wearing or i feel like a bully and the clothes arent even bully looking. I dont know, its weird and annoying cause then i cant look cute without acting like a little girl instead of still being me. Who else has this problemo? Or what are your thoughts about this subject?

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76% Normal
Based on 45 votes (34 yes)
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  • Riddler

    Sounds normal to me.

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  • I think it's normal-but to an extent. I feel different depending on what I'm wearing but it doesn't usually make me into something I don't want.

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  • Its just all in my head. Im at a stage right now figuring out who i am and accept it because ive always had the problem of people not accepting me but i feel its because i need to accept myself first. Im really easy for stuff to change me from people to clothes. Depending on all of that, is how i act and it shouldnt be that way. But since its been forever of me struggling to be myself and be ok with it, its gonna take longer to finally accept myself and im working on it right now.

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  • Jessica17

    The kind of clothes you wear should deff not change your personality at all! I wear shorts and a t-shirt in the summer time it deff doesn't change my personality. Has something been bothering you lately?

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