Is it normal if the boy doesn't want to have commitment?

i love someone (a guy) who also told me that he likes me. after his confession we sometimes go out and holding hands and embracing each other though we don't have a relationship yet... for me it's normal because i love him but i think it is better if we have a commitment.. but this guy doesn't want to that made me wonder if he really likes me.. should i doubt his feelings for me because he's not into relationship though he is very sweet every time we are together..??

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  • joybird

    A lot of men don't want to commit. Why do you think there are so many single mothers and so many absent fathers being pursued through the courts for child support?

    Chill out - it will develop naturally or not at all. Don't be a needy weak female - he will hate that!

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  • lc1988

    He still wants to shop around.

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    He is using you. Tell him if he does not care enough to commit than you cant continue seeing him anymore.

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  • He just isn't sure if he could live with someone with such poor grammar. That's probably all it is.

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