Is it normal if nobody has had a crush on me?

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Is it normal if nobody has had a crush on me or loved me (romantically) before? Throughout my whole life, I’ve never been asked out, no ones ever had a crush on me, I’ve never had a boyfriend or even my first kiss. Is this normal? Is there a possibility that men are simply repulsed by me? Some look at me now as a young adult but that’s all the attention I get from them.

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Based on 17 votes (13 yes)
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  • ellnell
    4 years ago

    Some people don't get their first partner until their mid 20s, even if they're a real catch. Usually it's because they're nerdy to some extent (in my experience), too focused on work etc. or a little odd before you get to know them and many people don't have patience for that, they go on first impression then they move on especially nowadays with dating apps when there's more options.
    And as for crushes, i've never told a single one of my crushes growing up that I had a crush on them so you don't know wether someone has had a crush on you or not but been too shy to speak up about it.

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  • Mammal-lover
    4 years ago

    People have most likely crushed on you just never had the courage to ask you out or make it obvious n junk

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  • --
    4 years ago

    How old are you? I have no idea about your personality but a lot of us dudes are attracted on looks alone, post a link to a pic of yourself and I'll tell you what I think. Other then that there is nothing I can do.

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  • d0esnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    I am sure plenty of guys have had crushes they just haven't made you aware.

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  • GaelicPotato
    4 years ago

    No.

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    • leggs91200
      4 years ago

      I am not trying to derail this thread but this bothers me -
      Your posts, like the above, are often extremely long and detailed. Do you think people take the time to read the entire word?

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      • GaelicPotato
        4 years ago

        I'm sorry. I'll try to keep them short next time.

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        • leggs91200
          4 years ago

          Damn, now you got me feeling guilty. Maybe I was too harsh. Well, just, thank you.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    4 years ago

    People have probably crushed on you but were too scared to say anything. That being said, instead of waiting to be asked out, go out and meet some guys.

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  • farkelu
    4 years ago

    When I was in my 40s, I dated a 21 yo girl (she picked ME up!) and she had also never dated or been kissed. I was patient and respectful, but of course, I'm also a man and she was an attractive young lady, so... instead of having her first in the back seat of a car from some pimply-faced boy, we kissed in the dunes on the beach at sunset. I hope she remembers it fondly - I know I do!

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