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i just worried now because i have boyfriend now and his older than me 18 years ...and he really want to marry me as soon as possible but im not sure yet coz ,his older than me that much.pls i need your advice 'coz im so confuse right now?
i think its cool if ur in love. i lovvvvve older men and dont care bout the age diff but they usualy think of me as a kid. if u gotta nice guy go for it
Yeah be careful, and make sure you know exactly what you want, before you jump into anything. Also make sure you think of life in the long term.
If you're not ready to get married, don't get married. Not to sound corny but just follow your heart. Simple as that.
How old are you anyways?
It does not seem natural to marry someone who is old enough to be your parent. Age does make a difference.
It's best to date someone who is 3 year older or 3 years younger. You'll be happier with the intellectual maturity. Plus what if you want kids? By the time you have kids and the child turns 10, he'll be 58 >.< children are usually embarrassed to have older dads.
So im guessing your 30 from the comment above^ so that makes him 48 years old. Too be honest i think its normal. Since you both are old anyway. No effence lol but the older you get the bigger age difference you can have w/ somebody else. It doesn't look bad
18 years is fine if he is the right guy and you love him.
Although it probably isnt fine if he's like...24 years old or something. LOL
How old are you?
MY QUESTION: HOW OLD ARE YOU? THAT MAKES ALL THE DIFFERENCE IN THE WORLD.
Are you saying he is 18 years older than you? If this is the case, don't marry him. You won't be growing old together, you will be growing into his nurse. Dating is fine, but don't marry him. Don't forget by late 40s early 50s men start having issues with erection quality and if he develops heart issues he can't use viagra you'll be stuck having sex with a soft penis for a lot longer than you would have had to with someone your own age. More important than that barring accidents he will die decades before you do twenty even thirty years given the differences in life expectancy between men and women. You will be starting over when you are older and dating can be rough when you are older.
love has no age restrictions but if he is rushing you to get married and you do not want to..do not go there..marriage is way different then just being with him but be honest to not only you..but to him and if he cares for you and you for him,he will wait and..understand