Is it normal if my boyfriend argue only at home then be cool in public

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My boyfriend argue a whole lot at home about everything! We fight over what to watch or eat with out family! But when r n public its like we r happy and forget about our problems. We fight about sex!! He don't want to do it when I ask! But when he wants I give and dats only one time a month! I would like it every two/three times a week! We have more then three kids now, and I would like it to work. We council together and talk out of anger about how we feel! What do I do? Please help me out! We love each other very much, we want to get ovr it so we b ready 2 mery by summer. We want a healthy relationship! Help!!

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  • RuLisnyn2Me?
    13 years ago

    It's not healthy for your children to have to see this if this is what happens when your at home! You say that you are in counseling well the reasons behind why he is the way he is should be expressed it sounds like the two of u aren't very compatible? If you argue about everything than why are you together? If it's for the kids I can respect that but in the long run of things if this arguing Nd fighting continues it's not very good for their sake to stay together and be exposed to this sort of unhealthy relationship!! As for the whole happy go lucky in public!! He very much is trying to portray an image of the happy family and doesn't want people to know he has issues which is not good either ESPECIALLY for your kids!! Talk to him more direct and outline what your concerns are and make a point of telling him your issues and ask what he thinks about these problems and what the two of you can do to fix it before it's TOOO late!! Good luck

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    I have always had a rule with my husband that has worked for us for almost 30 years....

    We never speak to each other in a way that we would NOT speak to our best friends in the pub! In other words, neither of us have ever swore at each other by saying F*** Off or anything like that. Just the once, and I'd be out the door!

    Why should he treat others with more respect than he treats the mother of his children?! Does he not realise that not one of those people would care if he was dead? Yet, you and the children would never get over it.

    Tell him to grow a set of balls and man up to his responsibilities. He should just grow up or shut up!

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  • kamilion
    13 years ago

    its good you can enjoy yourself in public and behave in front of people. its pretty lame you only have sex once a month though.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    No one should air their "dirty laundry" in front of others. To do it in public shows a lack of class and maturity.

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  • healster
    13 years ago

    Try some punctuations

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